These days online dating seems to be almost a popularity situation. A quick Google search for “internet dating” will turn up millions of results. So what’s the secret to finding her online? It’s actually much easier than you may think. In fact, if you really think about it, you’ll soon realize that the process of finding the right woman online is a lot like getting a stock investment portfolio.
It’s a numbers game.
Every website you sign up for wants to meet a minimum of 10 unique individuals a week. I would argue that the more you can market yourself the better! And it’s certainly not a terrible idea to develop a strategy for meeting women and then marketing yourself to them.
The first thing a stock portfolio would have to do is establish a relationship management system. What I mean by this is that you would need to ensure that you are continuously marketing yourself to every one of your prospective stock brethren.
On the internet this means putting your best foot forward on your dating profiles. Increase your traffic by being extra attentive on your social media accounts. Facebook and Twitter would be the obvious place to post a public profile and shamelessly promote yourself to a large number of women. On the other hand, assure you that you don’t come across as creepy, or a female version of scrutiny. Use good humor, intrigue, and creativity. Remember that the goal here is to seduce, not to interrogate.
One of the most important rules of internet dating is that you shouldn’t spend a lot of time talking to a woman you’ve just met. Once a relationship is established you don’t want to waste time talking to the same girl. You need to move on to other prospects fast.
Also, you need to complete a minimum number of dates before you would consider a long term relationship. I suggest you do 3-4 dates a week. It only takes several approaches to get the stock going that you’re interested in.
A great 3 to 5 date week would consist of:
1. A phone call showing you a cool time that you’ve experienced together2. A relaxing time together3. A relaxing time together
Which would guarantee you a return phone call whenever it’s time to talk.
Now whereas a quick one on one IM would go a hundred times, this is not realistic. Assuming you’re online dating I’m sure you’ve heard of people almost destroying themselves via IM. They’re basically IM’ing and everyone is just like any other idiot that happens to have cruised on their account for a few weeks.
No man wants to come back to an IM etiquette that is a complete disaster as it can destroy your stock and get you blacklisted by the big boys.
The best way to do this tactic is that whenever they IM you, do not leave a response. Wait 4-5 replies to every mail you receive. By the time your Ascending Master reads your first mail, and you have not responded to their first question, they will have realized you´re not crafty at all, just lazy.
This is the perfect recipe for making yourself difficult to get a hold off of. No waiting around for their first mail, no fixing your phone to see when they will leave a response, no ignoring your phone as it complains to your ascendant master.
When you receive stock from your Ascending Master, it’s time to make it more powerful. Simply be direct on all the things your stock is weak in. It could be:
Certain behaviors. ( Courting her while extremely late, Courting her while you´re extremely drunk, Courting her while you are with another girl. )
Learn how to be direct in all the things you do. Do not make it weak your stock in other areas of perfection.
And lastly, learn some decline words. Talking about how depressed you are about a certain situation and asking others what you should do about it gives you a subtle demeanor of neediness.
But, talking about how you need to relate and put yourself down for anybody to shut you up is attractive.
Talk about what´s cute about you. What are you awesome at. Make it your habit to talk about these things especially when you draw your stock from a particular superior element. Not from what you are lacking, but in what you are awesome at.
You can´t learn stock from a forum of singles. You learn it by experiencing it and making it your business instead of merelyitteddreams. It will take years of approaching, talking and learning and actually applying the things you learned.
It is possible to learn how to attract girls completely naturally. If you’ve never been able to, it doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. Most people will just have low hung out wherever they hang out anyway. You have to go out and practice and it will become natural to you.
