To say that you have value is not easy, but it’s much more possible than you may realize. Value is a heavy word, and its meaning is often misunderstood. Understanding and appreciating your values as a person can be valuable for your relationship, and once you understand them, you will feel, and be, morezer department!
Values -1.Have value.2.Have significance.3.Have value and respect.4.Enjoy value.5.Display value.
1.Having value.There are a number of ways to enjoy value, and many people have different amounts of value. cautiously Cast your net over the several things that you value, and consider what you want and what you don’t want in those areas of your life. Do you want to be wanted for your looks? Your money? Your ethnic-ties? Your spirituality?
2.Having significance.Talk about your experiences, your goals, and your dreams. Really get into those things that you find important. While you may not have significance, you may choose to do so, and you should talk about your importance as human being. Do you want to be wanted? To be important?
3.Exhibiting value.Your partner has passed their peak. Consider your own peak, and the life you want to lead. Have you reached it? Are you content in your current life? Does it fill you with a sense of contentment and well-being every day?
4.Enjoy value.What are you truly enjoying right now? Do you have a rich and full life? If not, make time for an improvement, a project. upgrade your job? Join a club? Pick new hobbies?
5.Yulet qualification.Take stock in your life, and make improvements and reservations. A strong couple is one where the other person is contributing to the life; they are also equally contributing to the life of the other person.
Compatibility Test
All things are possible with you, but not all things are desirable. All people have a different list of essentials differ by personality and life situation. While both partners may have the same end goal, different people will have different ways to reach it. The similarities don’t make the differences great, but vice versa. What are your common values? What must you bring into the relationship? How will you know if you are both on the same page?
It is better to know now, before you get too far along in the relationship. By the same token, it is also better to know now, what things you do not want in any relationship. specifially the following three:
o Numbness of the stomach
o Overly needy
o A wanting relationship
Pay attention to the values, don’t add to them. Again, listen to the differences, rather than the differences themselves.
Different emphases for conversation.Communication with different people has different rules. Talking with your mother to discuss your problems is different from talking to your date about your exciting plans for the future. Learn to train your ear, and adjust your mind.
Dates are appointments with a stranger. The whole idea of a date is going from here to there. When you go on a date, you know right from the beginning what you are doing and where you are going. No other person can provide that information.
There are things you must not do.After you have established a rapport, do not just walk out at the end. When the date is not going as well as you would like, be polite, but say nothing. Do not answer the phone, answer text, or wait for a reply. If you must tell someone that you must go, then leave a formal thirty-minute apology for not being able to make it.
Dating is an ethos, not an egotist shortcut.Ego is a function of many thousands of years of evolution. Being with someone and sharing your thoughts and emotions is vital to the success of the relationship. Dating is a time to assess what you have to bring into the relationship, take stock of whether your values are a good match for the other person’s and commit to bring them into your life.
Be yourself and have fun.Dating should be an experience for the interpreting. Be your natural self. Show that you are not afraid to be natural, then let your date see the real you. Consistently showing your true self will remain a great attraction.
