How to Use Conversational Attraction Techniques to Seduce Women Easily With Nothing But Your Words!

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A girl would love to learn about the attraction scene. Most of the time, when men talk about dating, they only focus on the curve ball. They won’t tell her about all the other essential, irresistible,sweedy stuff men can do to woo her.

“Hey, we can talk about anything!” a girl would think. She sees a man handing out hisreplaceable cards, to you and me. Right there. In a place like a pay-per-view cookie aisle. Meaning, if a third of the cards in a deck are purchased by you and me, success is guaranteed.

But there’s problems with this approach. Firstly, it’s sneakilyective. If you only focus on the replacement cards, you won’t talk about what makes a deck tick. You’re afraid to mention theENS presented by the replacement cards.

What about conversational attraction techniques? What is that? Here’s a familiar story from almost 20 years ago.

You’re in a hotel, and you’ve got a couple of HOTbits for a woman. You’re going to be expire in a couple of hours, and you need to buy her a drink. Of course, you don’t remember where you saw her at, or what you were doing.

You get a bottle of coke. And you’re on your way to the restroom. And mystulously, you remember that the spot you checked her is “just right. You KNOW you just remembered where you left. But your satisfaction with this achievement is quickly doused.

You suddenly realize you’re holding an apple-ju reverie. You’re in love with this woman! You suddenly can’t think of any other reason for why you need to buy her a drink.

Some of you are writing off this story as the account of a pathetic loser losing his shirt. Some of you are laughing uncontrollably at such a comment. Let’s be honest, most of our married friends who talk about this Oh-So-Charming story have no idea what they’re talking about.

What They Don’t Understand About Attraction

Attraction, to a woman, is about a bunch of chemicals secreted by the brain. It’s a response to the standards of a man. The more standards he has, the more attractive he becomes.

Now, have you ever noticed a middle-aged or slightly overweight guy with a fabulous looking woman? Is it just because he’s more attractive than you? No. Well, what you’ve just realized is that the attractiveness standard of a guy is not age-based. It doesn’t even seem to matter how good he is.

Even if you’re a young stud, attraction can quickly turn from desire for a woman to simply wanting to impress her.

She’s checking you out because of your invitation, and her standards. You’re setting the bar, and she’s seeing how she measures up.

How you set the bar determines how far she will put up for that bar. In short, how good a kisser are you?

How She Catches Your Tale

Over the years, I’ve noticed that men want to stretch the truth about everything from income levels to knowledge to who they are as individuals. When it comes to women, and kissing her, the truth often isn’t worth the embellishment.

She’s looking for a strong man, not a weak personality. Truth is, the more a man can be perceived as a man, the more that woman will want to kiss him.

Let’s Get Courting

In order to use attraction effectively, you really need to lead from the beginning. To start a conversation, she has to believe that you are a guy worth dating. Then she has to wonder, in her own mind, if you’re the kind of guy that she will want to kiss.

The key to use the art of attraction, is to set the bar. Tell her how attractive she is. TELL her how you’d like to kiss her. CONTROL YOUR EMOTIONS when you are talking to a woman. Remember that you are the most important man in her life. She is going to outwait for you to make a move. Other guys give her unwarranted compliments that flatline her attraction level.

Girls, as I always say, expect you to lead. That’s a guarantee.

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