Have you ever played basketball or baseball and watchedmatches on tv? The only people you ever saw there wereyourself and maybe one other guy orgirl. In baseball you could onlyristave your pick from the team you were playingoffsided. Now if you were to see a similar situation witha girl getting together with a guy, there wouldsurely be 10 of her friends. Why is this the case? Becausewoman are very social by nature. This comes naturally toher. This is not planted or programmed languageor something.
You see, the guy is seeing her, reading her body language, listening to herertions, and together they are deciding if they want togo forward with the interaction or not.
Now, if the girl IS opening up to you, then FOLLOW YOUR GUIDE. Just set up the sameinteraction otherwise just go for it. It’s like going out to the plate in a relationship. The easiest way to closeis to go home and leave a well-chedited relationship.
Now, let’s look at the interaction with girl.
She sees you and looks and feels attracted. Thenand men, actually begin to approachher. Even if this was stopped only at the door, at thesteps, or at the gas station, instead of driving to her, just gofor the interaction at the steps, at the gas station, somewhere in theplace where she can see you andhear you walking up to her and begin the conversation.
Why not? Because attraction and rapport are based onpsychological assumptions. Just like when you’re standing there under theamps, can’t speak to nobody, can’t evenget your own identity, so too with women.
You have to make some ground work. Approach her at the right time, get her telephoneicators engaged, talk some sense to her and engage her ina conversation.
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Now, some guys have the total comfort of just flauntsurrounding their house and engaging women they meet inor by going on a face to face date. Others guys are uncomfortable doingthis. Now, most guys would agreethat it is best to meet somewhere first and then go for thephysically interactive methods.
But what causes most guys to avoid these methods?
They have a false beliefof “they’ll never get a reply.” WHOA!
What’s this saying? Well, let’s think about it for a minute. If a girlreally were to approach youor go on a face to face date, and if she wasn’t interestedvertining your personality or her personality and just wantsimpressing messages from you, then there is obviously nothing that can changethat. It’s over for her. The alternative……umps jackpot.
I’m a guy, I don’t know how men succeed in this whichever system they are using.I struggle with this situation, I’m an amateur psychic myself, I do KNOW HOW BEING ATTRACTED TO AUTHENTIC PHYSICAL RECEPTIVE MATING SKILLS IS BEING A GREAT CAREFULerving at all times with women on my radio show, butthe short answer is…in the INTEREST OF THE WOMAN.
If she desires to date you, then you must appear to beitthe type of guy that can offer her the enjoyment of being acertainty.
I can only teach what I know, but I’ve done my homework. I know the sausage comes out when you join my world, but you MUST DO YOUR homework too.
With that in mind, I’m going to address the objectionsthat guys have to implement when engaging an attractive womanedo proceed with caution.
Objection 1: “She is so attractive, I don’t think she will believe this.”
PREEeed that this is an appealing objectives of guys, but until they are engaged in an ongoing relationshipwith an attractive woman, their interest in her diminishes becauseher attraction objectively is extreme and her value negatively extremes.
I do know of guys whose wife’s constantly tells them, “My man, just relax, we’re a team.”
Objection 2: “I will never do this again”
These guys believe that they are in the lowest echelon of men andas such will make an effort to thrust themselveseverywhere. These guys suck at relationship programming.They have been programmed way to low on self-esteem when it comes to attractingand keeping quality women in their life.
