Are you feeling down in the dumps because you just can’t get the girl you want? Do you often ask yourself what is wrong with you to make girls ignore you? Would you like to feel better and feel attractive instead? To become more attractive in the eyes of a girl, here are the top tips you should follow.
1. Stop wishing it was you all along. Do not keep on wishing that you have it all together, be it professionally, financially or physically. Girls do not usually fall for either arrogant or wishy-washy guys so if you wish to be liked, then be true to yourself. Your wish will always be wishful, and you may end up living the rest of your life contented with the thought that you fought off world hunger and survived Peter Pan syndrome.
2. Be true to your promises. Never make promises you cannot fulfill. They should be taken back not given to you. If you promise to come to pick her up at 7pm, be there even earlier to take her out to dinner. If you make a promise and you don’t intend to keep it, it is better to say good bye and look for a pretty girl that might be worthy of going home with you.
3. Never keep the girls at a bar waiting. Chances are, even if you do find a pretty girl willing to have dinner with you, she is surrounded by friends having a good time, which are rich ol’ male company. BE fuel for change.
4. Treat every girl you come across like a princess unless they rebuff you. When you are out in a bar or elsewhere, make it a point to shower, compliment, and talk to every female you come across. Do not approach a girl unless you are prepared to approach her friends and and vice versa. You want to practice on being a real social around women (and others).
5. Keep it interesting. Once you are in a conversation with a girl, make sure you are listen, she is interested, and have something to ask. Asking questions is the best, and most straightforward, way to maintain fuel for fuel in dealing with a girl. Ask her about something that she is sure to knows a lot about. If she is young, ask her about her favorite hang-outs/hobbies. Remember to keep the conversation light and casual. It’s best to stay away from the negatives on opinions, beliefs, and judgments. The best part of being in a conversation with someone is to learn just how much you have in common.
6. Insinuate that you want a commitment early in the conversation. Most girls will want you to man up and tell them why you are talking to them instead of waiting for someone to tell them. If you were a girl, you would not want be talking to a guy if you didn’t want a commitment and didn’t care if you called him after.
7. If feasible, make plans for later in the week such as Friday night out, weekend getaway, etc. Nothing calls for Friday night, Sunday night, or Monday night excursions. Or, tell her you have things to take care of in your job, so you can spend your time with her. Girls make judgments about you when you spend your time away from her.
The most frequently asked question men and women both tend to relate to is how to change the oil in her car. Girls don’t seem to think there is anything wrong with changing the oil in her car. However, most men think if they do what most people do, they would have an equally lovely experience. Most women prefer that it should be done at a moment’s notice and is completed with complete bashing and hitting, e.g., “Oh Bell Yes!” I’m thinking in any case she won’t be finished. The negative experiences was the reason I decided to learn how to reduce rejection. To change the oil in her car means stand out from the thousands of other potential lovers, e.g., you’re not like the ninety-five other guys who asked her out, (and she will decline every single one), in order to set yourself apart.
These points show you how to reduce rejection, and how to impress her from the outset.
