Do you wish it was easier to learn how to talk to any guy without feeling shy or embarrassed? Do you avoid talking to men because it makes you feel insecure or nervous? Do you wish men would just come out and tell you what they want like an open book? This is a problem some women have. It’s enough to make a girl hide in her closet and won’t tell a guy even if she thought he was cute. If you can overcome your fear of talking to any guy, you will have a new problem on your hands.
Itted somewhere out there is a good-looking man who wants a woman who has confidence in herself enough to approach him. If you get that chance, be sure to ask questions. This is important. People all have a couple of questions they ask people of the opposite sex. This is one way of getting to know a person without nipping the conversation in the bud. This is an important and fun tactic.
Say you come across a guy. The next thing you do is smile, look at him questioningly and ask about a single question. If you’re a fun, younger person, you might ask, “So, where are you from?” Say you’re sitting at a bar, so you might ask, “What do you do for work?” From there you just get to keep asking question after question. This is bound to lead to talking. Men interpret this as an indication that you’re a friendly person.
It has been proven that men ask more questions than women do. If you can’t keep asking before he gets tired, then just bite your lip and keep asking.
Not only will this take the pressure off him, he will be flattered that you’re showing some interest in who he is.
It has been proven that most people want a companion, not a parent. Figure out what his hobby is and give a comment. “Wow, that’s a great golf course. I play it once a week. You’re a good golfer too, huh?”
People love to talk about themselves, so give them a chance. Let yourself shine and be the only woman in the crowd. Drink in what he’s saying and don’t be afraid to tell him how impressed you are. Just do your best to keep your comments brief and casual. No man needs to hear, “Wow, what a cute dog.”
Give him a chance to tell you what he’s all about and don’t be afraid to let him talk about himself as well. Men find this kind of information very important and they really like to know what will interest you. If you’re a good listener, you will be able to tell what his hobbies and interests are. You get to keep track of websites he’s interested in and you can suggest some of your own to him.
Hanging on to every word and letting him carry the conversation will mean that you won’t get a chance to say anything about yourself. Step away from the TV for just a moment and give a man a chance to tell you about himself. Men are so tired of being in the role of servant. They want an interesting woman. Make it possible for him to carry the conversation with you and he’ll be more inclined to go out on a second date with you.
It takes two to have a relationship and two to have a relationship based on honesty and sharing. If you can really learn how to talk to any guy, you’ll be just fine.
