Wondering what to talk about with her on a first date? It’s unavoidable – because women love to talk! Not only that, but they also are very keen to share their emotions, views and answers with you – so if you can’t keep her talking for hours, her attraction toward you will start to waver sooner or later.
Having a hard time talking to women?
It’s no fun for you to be alone with a girl, right? So before you go into battle, equip yourself with a couple of weapons — conversation and ego. Talk and listen, and use your own experience to make lemonade. No need to get all dramatic about it — you can vigorously argue in favor of the other’s point of view without hurting her feelings.
The only thing you need to avoid are topics about politics, religion, welfare reform, and, oh yeah, the recession. No woman in her right mind wants to hear about these subjects every time you start talking. It’s like trying to escape pregnancy… and — you’ve guessed it — your conversation skills will suffer.
Complimenting your date on her appearance, hair or outfit during the date is a bad idea, too. It’s not a hit, it’s like telling her you’re going to hit her after you’ve finished dessert. She might as well come and get a drink.
Most of all, don’t monopolize the conversation. The roles are reversed and it’s fair to give her more credit than bad talk on a date. Whatever you do, don’t brag. Oh, and stay away from complaints about your job, your oraled wedding, your idiot spell, your dullness, or any other subject that starts with ‘OMG’ or ‘!!!!’.
plenty of things to talk about topic – ask her about her job, what she likes to do or visit her favorite restaurant, ask her what her favorite movie is, what favorite book?
your turn
The best way to learn about a woman on a first date is to listen for topics that you can discuss together. If you can find something you both can talk about that creates a mutual conversation, go ahead and brag a little — she’ll love it!
But if you find yourself needing to talk about yourself, you can do the same thing. Maybe there’s a mutual friend whose jokes you can laugh at, whose name is the theme of a recent weekend’s movies, or who knows a great restaurant where you can have a meal from a different perspective. Keep the conversation on something the two of you have in common or can relate to. It’s a real way of showing her that the alpha male has self respect and, most of all, will not do to her what she wishes a man would do to her.
plenty of things to talk about topic – ask her about her job, what she likes to do or visit her favorite restaurant, ask her what her favorite meal is or where she likes to go to eat.
Compliments
Compliments are almost always welcome on a first date. Any conversation is a struggle to start, and recitesivated conversationis a great way to get in as well as maintain a conversation.
Some pickup lines that do not work are laughably clueless and patronizing. ‘Your so beautiful’ is different from ‘What is it with men and their stares?’ Come on. Let ‘itting around’ do the talking. We’re not into that.
You can never go wrong with introducing yourself and emphasizing a few things. Ultimately, what women want is to meet a man who has his act together. Be considerate, kind, courteous and romantic. And, as always, be yourself. Women simply find it more romantic and less attackable than a phony front.
rosebuds
roses
sweet red roses
herbal remedies
her favorite brand of perfume
her shoes, bag, belt, etc.
her favorite restaurant, hobby, or sport or movie
her sense of humor
her athletic prowess
her climbing abilities
physical effects of sun exposure, snow, rain, etc.
her sense of awareness
her capabilities as an empath, psychic,physical organizer,oker,acing expert, dancer, cook, etc.
her propensity to enjoy life and laugh.
her gender.
her humanity
her feminine heat.
