So once you have gotten into a relationship with a woman there is a deep desire to spend time with her, but knowing how to do this is very important.
Just because you are in a relationship it doesn’t mean you have to be in lock step with her and follow her around like a puppy, this could make you seem clingy and needy and when you are needy it means you lack intimacy which is the number one relationship killer!
It’s amazing the things you can pick up on when you are actually talking to the woman that you are dating. Things such as what she wants in a man, what attracts her, things of this nature. But the best thing is to know how to actually listen to what a woman is saying and get to actually understand her and her desires.
When you are in conversation with her it’s important to respond to what she says. For example if she says, “I really love me flassy scents,” you may respond by saying, “Ok, that’s great because I really love them myself, too.” This will show that you actually hear what she is saying and you are indeed listening and are interested.
When it comes to wanting to spend time with a woman it should be clear that you want to do so and you really want to make it a lot of fun. Some guys are fearful of rejection which is why they fail the initial conversation and this fear stifles their possible ability to make a woman want to see them time and again, again and again.
In order to overcome this you must at the onset of the conversation with the woman decide that you are interested in hearing more from her. You’ve got to be spontaneous with your responses and when you are talking, you should actually be listening.
Have you ever been stuck in a location where you weren’t really able to talk? Well the first step to overcome this is to decide that you actually want to talk to the person you are with and be able to have a conversation, so when you decide you want to do this the conversation will just follow, on its own.
It is best to have some sort of criteria that you wish to meet in a woman, for example;
When you are talking to a woman and you wish to understand what their desires are it is therefore your goal to become emotional with them and allow them to express themselves freely.
It is a proven fact that the most attractive characteristics a man can possess are intelligence and confidence. Woman appreciate a man that is sensitive and intelligent, and revealed this to me in a recent survey. Woman are emotional creatures and romance novels and soap operas are filled with witty and complex conversations, and this is what makes a woman melt! So once you have decided that you actually want to get to know this woman you’re talking to then think about some items to share and some topics to avoid, before you go out on another date with her.
The goal now is to share a wealth of topics with the woman from politics, religion, sports, nature, hobbies, etc. The more topics you share the more bonding you will mutually feel.
After you’ve brought up issues and discussions that you mutually feel are interesting, it is time to take this discussion where you go, don’t finish your conversation and leave. Instead before you go to leave turn in your conversation. Ask her if she wants to continue this discussion again on a future date. Be assertive and decisive, this is what will hook her. Yes, make her think! She doesn’t want to feel like she is boring you to death! Feel free to h fireplace her with your feelings, chances are she will too.
Take this seriously! You are now on the path to hooked on. Take it slow, let her reveal her feelings in the right way, make her spill out all the dirty details of her heart all at once and she might not be able to. Ask her out for a future date on this very day and let the chemistry and intimacy build and build until you can not contain it anymore!
On another note, it is amazing how a woman falls for a man the minute he gets into her presence. This is your lucky day, just keep fire up and don’t let the fire die out, keep it licking and ready to ignite.
I remember back in college I had a great looking red head girl. She had gorgeous long limbs and a cute face. As the time progressed we got to know each other better. It came to my attention that there was a unusual amount of interest going on from my end, toward her. Then one day we went out and I initiated the end of our relationship. Why? Because I was so intrigued with the way she twirling her finger through one finger while playing with the other. You know what?
