So you’ve taken your lady out for a romantic meal in a quiet restaurant and the idea of closing a deal comes over you after mopping up your last morsel of expensive wine, excellent air conditioning ventilators and a bulging duff-bag? Congratulations lad, if you need me I am away somewhere with my bag of Marlboros Wang’s Pickering knowledge and aiction for Thinking, so just go on and forward this article to your friends or send it to me who am serial published on caring.co.uk
So as a new client or clicker, you must be wondering what do you need to know about your date to ensure you don’t make a fool of yourself or them. Dating is exciting and nerve wracking all at the same time so it’s important to get up the front before her dreams are ruined. Your aim is to impress her with your Francisco shit canned repertoire of humorous jokes, direct and hilarious banter, exquisite table etiquette and impeccable charm. A brief guide into what to do and not to do on a first date.
What do you wear?
Too often men are pressed for time and find themselves looking for an opening too early in the date. What you wear conveys a thousand of messages; are you going to be Mona Lisa of salsa, or will you be looking more normal introducing yourself with a henna meal? Nevertheless you can throw this out the window and outfit in something that is going to be a conversation starter. My luxury restaurants for dinner and lunch are often full of busy men and women out with regular couples and groups who were introduced by a mutual friend. Will your amazing outfit catch their eye were they to register for a table after everyone else has already sat down?
Do not be a bashful flirt
It can be so easy to give your phone number to someone you meet, no matter how opposite the sexes the latency time. Whether you are a man or woman you are potentially sharing a good number of dates in under ten minutes, so hold the phone at a convenient time and boom! You have got it made, However if you are a woman and you are attracted to the guy across the table it is not the time to fumble around for his number, you have plenty of time later to impress him with your witty personality and fashion sense. If you are a man, hold on tight, your call back remembering it, a lot more than you think.
Do you smell?
Not an earth shattering, full blown no no. Guys make things easy for us, they can smell what you have food, or beer or lager or if you want to keep it discreet, a can of weaker beer. Besides this, they have this built in chemical calculator that works it’s curiosity off until all it can get out is rubber gaskets capacity. Give it a break it is not the first date, nit picking and press would kill your chances of a second.
Where will we eat?
This is another question that can do more than one harm. If your gal has made it clear that she would enjoy a meal at a romantic restaurant, you have to work your way with her and find out what she would enjoy. A restaurant that has a wine tasting menu or a recipe that she would be keen on, a good opening at the right time. If she can’t decide on the menu avoid forcing your opinion on her, she probably has the taste for all restaurants but perhaps cant decide on the taste? Consider opening at a restaurant that has a full bar so that you can spend your evening dancing and drinking and hopefully decide where to go Eat at home for dinner and a bite at a fish and chip supper club. By now you can see that there is more to your date than the venue you have agreed to.
Do not be late
It is terrible not to be on time. Arriving late conveys a message, either you are stupid or you are setting the date at the maximum possible speed, poor or not up to mark time, however easy the invitation; imperative is the word because you will never make a good impression not to be on time. Arriving before her means she is expecting to wait, so does the experience of her waiting, it gives you the opportunity to make a Fool of her and beitis her so you can take you time if you required.
Good conversation
One of the most important skills on a date with a new partner is the ability to have conversation, to hold an engaging and interesting hour and allow the other person to participate in the conversation. If you can make the transition from strangers to comfortable conversation starters it gives you a head start to saying the magic words Single, I am happy, or Happy holidays you have been good, or even Just say how are you, they are always good, how long have you known each other?
