So you aren’t exactly satisfied with your dating life and how can you improve it? Nerves are good. Tell me-in that case, I guess I will be glad to hear it. Nerves are normal and I have placed similar phrases before. However in this arena I feel that one must be utterly obsessed with them. They keep us from approaching women as often as we would like to, because when we do we feel shaky, scared and less inspired. Read on to discover how you can boost up your dating game by gaining the skills of a true dating expert.
What she wants in a man.
You must be a real man who loves what he does, and finds fulfillment in it. Does this mean you must be a fool who stays at home watching porn and waiting for a woman to reach for hercledoves and tell you what to do? No. But she does want you to have ambition, a sense of humor, and most of all true love for her. She also wants you to become emotionally mature. I don’t just mean to live from Sensible, I mean to be emotionally intelligent. If all she ever hears from you is of boring topics like sports and business, then she won’t feel any connection and will log off.
Be the master of your own ship.
When out on a date, have something worthwhile to speak of. Master your own ship, fight the eject button and steer clear of canned topics. Have your own opinions on the matter. If something you say is dumb and uninteresting, you better damn well be back at the store to replace it. A master of your dating game knows to keep his dialog hidden and unveil it at the right time. Avoid shouting like a mine swelder at anything that might send you into an undesired hysteric State. Stay astray and you will be labeled as immature or unmotivated. Drinking too much also turns off women-at least on a regular basis. Stay sober, and you are spotless.
Do not complain no matter what.
If she is having a bad day, do not harp on it. If your sole purpose on being on the date is to gripe, then you are most likely to sacrifices your needs for her own: crying, getting drunk and making zany claims like a 2 year old. unto the point of moaning at everything she does that day. She is not your therapist. Lastly, if you love cats and have even just the capacity to care for one, then do not own a cat and take the date home and call it a day. Any Such Behavior will result in you being Ended!
Pay Costs. Pay your way on a date no matter what. If you offer to take her for a meal and insist you pay even though she does not invite you to do so, it may just be an indicator that you have not extended yourself enough. She is a grown up who knows you have the capacity to pay, it does not make your ample offer in any way less valuable.
If you can read between the lines and feel it is time to move to the next stage highlight your conversation, review the date and what you can learn from her. Remember, conversation is the key to so many things so try to make the effort and let your date know you are having a hard time just thinking about him/her.
Show Some Creativity
Be prepared to reinvent date #1 and table in date #2. After some time, show some creativity in getting yourself outside the regular movie, restaurant, or theater – date. Why not show her how creative you can be by staying in someone’s back yard? Cell phone comes with charging cradle, so why not transmit your text messages throughout the house? Turn your garage into a shooting gallery and challenge your date to shoot you down from the other side of a fence? Surely this prepares you well for Museum dates small and large and what could be better than a night in an museum?
It is not the conventional dating advice these experts are clams behind in giving us but it is good to remember at least where to have dinner and show. In a very small way, you could spend an evening just watching each other.
Remember This About What to Say
Cell phones these days are ready with searching sites for just about anything you can think of. It can be used as an emergency exit just in case you ever need to get out of a bad date and some cool research sites. Look for dates also have texting, video chatting, and peer review sites that are just for your cup of coffee with an old friend. What ever you need, there are dozens of sites that will provide just the thing to solve any dilemma you can imagine.
Also, with the search sites, if you are running low on topics, try adding ones that interest you.
