Dating and relationships are funny things. You really can’t tell if someone likes you or not unless you know them very well. Yet if you are a girl and you are always trying to figure out whether the guy is really into you or not, you will always be desperate and always have that doubt in the back of your mind. Does he like me? How to tell if he likes me? How to know if he is interested in me?
I understand the feelings of those people who are part of the “dating game”, I used to be part of it for a very long time till I found out the hard way that if you don’t know the signs and the body language, not everybody is what he seems.
It is so sad to say this to you realtively, to have this feeling inside of you that someone liked you and you are always questioning yourself whether he likes you or not.
I need to tell you this, if you really think that he likes you, he will tell you himself, I mean it. Don’t keep wondering whether he likes you or not, get the picture together and learn to read the signs, he is going to tell you if he likes you or not, you will need to learn to read his body very well.
Now let me tell you the four most obvious signs that he likes you. You just have to learn to read them.
1). He keeps looking at you
This is one of the most obvious signs that he likes you, he is going to keep looking at you and it seems like he is checking you out. He is going to make excuses to keep looking at you, this also happens when he thinks that you are not looking. Stop being paranoid, he is just a guy who is attracted to you.
2). He touches you
A touch is a sign that he is interested in you, he is going to try to break the ice with a little touch to test you. He will always try to touch you in a very casual way so that you recognize it, he spirits back. Stop being wierded out, if he likes you, he will show you, the signs are there.
3). He is too polite
If he is a gentleman, he will be very polite to you, be very sweet and polite. Too often, a gentleman turns his head away when you talk to him, especially if you tell him that you are mad at him. Now brunette has something to think about, this guy is too polite, he likes you and you know it, but do you want to know-straight?
4). He is too passionate
This is the most alarming for every girl. When a man is too passionate the words come out wrong, he is sayings things which might get him into trouble. He forgets things which are important to you, he does not care. When a man is too intense and becomes too intense the woman will feel very powerful. Girls are scared of men who love them intensely.
Finally I want to say that I have been there too and when a guy is too intense you feel like you want to run away and never see him again. Here is the big secret- Stop worrying, if he likes you, he will show his emotions, he fears and hates being rejected. Stop thinking that, just because he IS sweet, caring and loving, just because he IS a gentleman, that he is politely informing you.
Remember Mr. Gentlevous.
But what if the signs were not so obvious? “How to tell if he likes me”, is the question that has been bridge thrown to millions of women, and I think that the answer is that you DON’T know the answer.
One of the things that can happen is that he will give you some time and then occupy your mind, but when the excitement starts to die he becomes emotionally cold. Don’t be afraid to meet him, but don’t be too hasty to fall for whatever he tells you, but you should be open to all possibilities.
Men are unpredictable, no doubt about it, but the unpredictable guy gives a woman a chance to be unpredictable too. And don’t be afraid to try, if something happens, it will and when you met him, just smile and hope for the best.
And always remember- SAY YES.
Younger women will think that older men are very immature if they say no to them, but older men will think younger girls are immature too… But hey, that can be their chance of finding the partner who will be with them for the rest of their live.
But there is not a 100% guarantee that things will turn out well with a yes from you.
I am sure, there will be some times when things will just go wrong, but that happens to everyone.
