Now is the best time of your life to experience a fulfilling relationship with an amazing woman. The breakup of males and females in relationships has put the once common society of dating out of reach in meaningful ways.
Seeking Ms. Right isn’t hard it just requires that you look for them with more informed expectations. The dating follows similar traditions and is often expected to follow similar rituals. Often singles are anxious to proof that they are an exceptional person and a prize find because they assume that millions of men and women are competing for your attention. Our society is guilty ofovichoking about our ninety year old President. It promotes opinions that are merit based and often morals that have not been updated for decades. It creates standards that contradict the facts.
It would take a book to explain all the dynamics of relationships but I’m going to cover some of the major ones. I’ve broken up marriages with women for a reason. I’m a firm believer in treating women in a very inexpensive manner. In the dating arena, display that you are interested in the woman. Keep your eyes and mind open to let her know that she is an individual worth dating, but intelligent enough to realize that you have other options.
I cannot stress enough that you must make it clear that you are serious about her. Do not present yourself just like the other guys “without strings”. I met a few guys that were hell bent on proving to their women that they were the man. Trust me ladies, most men are not going to straiten up and bring you down to their level. Why should a man do that when he is supposed to be the man. We have all played the role of the lady and we are masters at self criticism.Commitment- A woman wants to know that you have commitment to your relationship with her as a couple, past situations is a plus but they really want to get your thinking in a focused direction.
It is very tempting sometimes to make unnecessary waves. I hate to say this but the best relationships stem from those that are comfortable in who you are. She wants to know you have an ounce of fire actually in you. For a single man, the most unappealing attribute can be to have no opinion of your own and say things like “I don’t know”, “I can’t decide”, or “Women like guys who are soft” This is notwho you are women want. Show that you are able to lead. No one wants a directionless guy. You know deep down that you do not yet know many of the things that possess meaning and value in your life. Too many times men are not willing to lead. Someone they can lead and that is the core of what attracts women to men.
Honesty- It seems that the word “honest” means the same thing to men and women. This is not always the case. Women will naturally shoe shop, but when you are looking to date, people are less likely to be willing to be completely truthful. This is why too much of the sex and just physical relationship might sway women form you as a whole person. Know yourself and find the woman. Engage in the process of getting to know the woman. You do not want to do all the alone time. Keep your conversation regarding the woman’s interests. Have confidence in the man that you are.
When looking to find a partner, find the woman first that you are truly compatible with. Know yourself and your needs and want to be in a relationship that is based on those. Needy men will only attract superficial women. An average woman does not want to be with a needy guy. Build up the emotional connection over time.
If a guy appears to be overwhelming to you, you may find repetitive behaviors attractive. Be rational and process things logically. Going with the flow will bring you to that wonderful person.
