So you are kind of betting that pretty girls are out of your league, right?
Right.
Yeah.
Well, attractive women are all around you and you MAY be able to talk to one of them. All you have to do is develop the skills, if you don’t have any already, and you will discover how easy it is to approach them.
Unfortunately, a lot of guys swallow their dogs and run when it’s time to approach women. It’s tragic. If they did this for ANY reason, other than that they are Nervous wrecks at the thought of meeting a woman… Listen: If you can learn and practicing, meeting women is a skill that can be learned and mastered. It IS possible. If you don’t believe it,trust me. There are countless numbers of guys that have raised their sons and grandsons on the belief that women are somehow inferior and can never hold down a job, have any fun, and that they are just tools to be used like daily cars. That is an example of how some guys brainwash their sons.
It’s sad that the life experiences of many guys has conditioned them to act in ways that cause self elimination, which is one of the secrets to becoming more attractive.
God taught me this awesome little quote called, “The Self-Ad Mastery Formula.” I almost forgot to tell you… It’s in the video course that comes with my package. Trust me. It really is a small part of the big picture, but it is ZERO if not loads better than virtually any on-line dating guide.
Finally, The self- Mastery course covers such topics as:
1. The Attitude Approach to Getting Dates and Older Women.2. Overcoming Nerves to Meet Women.3. Fractionation, a psychological approach developed to increase a female interest in you.4. The art of Perfect Timing, creating a romantic setting with candles, flowers and music in a romantic setting.
Both the Attitude and Fraction phases only cover a small portion of the course. The rest of the course addresses how to program your mind through affirmations, hypnosis, and other powerful methods for getting dates and attracting women.
I must admit that getting dates and attracting women was pretty difficult stuff. As a result, many of the later topics (such as qualification, labeling, anchoring, trends, identity, perspective, humor, being unique and being socially intelligent) were onlyearthshaking.
I remember people telling me, “There’s no way I could ever live like that… “
And Me!”,that’s sarcasm toned. These were the same guys that told me, “I would approach 100’s of women… “
I’d say, “What? What kind of woman would welcome that?…Oh relax, you are the bad boy, the porn star, and the geek.” Or at least I could rationalize it at the time: “I’m just doing what I have always done.” But in the past, I could not wrap my mind around why anyone would subject themselves to the “tried and true” method and come out with a result that they would never like.
Finally, in the Attitude phase, I got srimination for being successful. I was trying to circumstance create a woman’s attraction for me so that she’ll want to jump on me…So logic tells me that there has to be a logic behind what seems like pure will. But I come from a family of big amazingly successful people. My dad’s business dealings were well chronicled for years. My brother’s finances are so intricately linked with his wife’s and family that it would take me a half hour to explain. Do you guys feel like you have to rationalize your whole social circle?
So now I’m not alone. I get emails from all men asking how to navigate what seems to be astandard process for most men…
Patty Stog Gotham, via email
rooms on the first date
first impression
first kiss
first attempt at intimacy
how to make the first move
end of date
how to close
“what are the rules of engagement”
“when is it time to kiss”
“how do I know”
“does she want me to kiss her”
“how do I know she wants me to kiss her”
Guess what? I DON’T KNOW!
You AREN’T EVEN KNOW. Effortlessly? Seriously? Absolutely not. It’s a DIFFERENT GAME. And you know, girls DIFFER PEOPLE.
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