Don’t most people you see walk around and talk to attractive women with no effort and no real skill in the seduction game, you can do it that way but if you really want to be successful you need to understand the dynamics of the game and apply some principles. In this article I’m going to show you how to flirt with words.
Let’s say you see a very hot and sexy woman and she’s by herself and you think she might be interested in taking out, so how do you approach her?
You walk up and you start to flirt with her saying things like: “Hi, excuse me, you have the most beautiful and most perfect smile I’ve ever seen. What’s your name?”
You may thing that she’s aitch and you’re probably desperate, but believe me she’s not.
Attraction is not based on your looks but it’s based on your character and personality, anything can be appealing if you know how to project it properly.
Just look at signs of attraction and you’ll know exactly how to talk to a women and get her attracted to you.
You’ll know exactly how to talk to a women and get her very attracted to you.
When you walk up to a sexy woman and talk to her you are not thinking:
“WOu did I get hers”?
You’re thinking:
“She is so HOT!”
She is also thinking:
“Oh my GOD! What is this guy doing here and standing around staring at me”
And you are also thinking:
“I hope he doesn’t think I’m fat and annoying”
So what’s the result?
She becomes very unattractive and she doesn’t want to follow you around, pick you up, nor want you to take her home, to her place, and start observing how wonderful you look in your pair of jeans.
You got her interested and intrigued by you flirting and smiling. How do you proceed?
Well the best way to get phone number and get her personal ad OBVIOUSLY interested in you is just…
To ask for her phone number.
Just say: “I was just here joining circle of friends because it brought me to your attention, I’m sort of in/out of town right now, would you care for phone number or maybe I can call you tomorrow?”
When you ask her for her phone number and she gives it to you, that’s another sure sign that she wants you to call her up.
From that moment you have her hooked. What do you do from there?
Well you get her name and the number… some guys call, some don’t. Some guys text, some don’t. It all depends on your amazing personality.
I would call the next day but I don’t usually do it alone because there are times I don’t feel comfortable with that and it makes her uncomfortable too. It’s just like men.
My personal beliefs also lead me to take a lot longer to call.
When you are flirting with a girl by offering her a drink, you will not be thinking:
“OMG! I NEED TO GET HER NUMBER!”
You are just going to:
“Wow! This girl is really cute! I think I am going to say “hi” first and then figure out if she’s interested in meeting me!”
In contrast to what I’ve just said you will constantly be AACTING like this. In other words, you cannot be non-reactive to a beautiful women.
This is also a perfect way to learn over one another: When something a woman does impacts you, you react. When she gives me the cold shoulder, I will give her the cold shoulder. I don’t react to women because it’s a defense mechanism. It’s a way of protecting myself from suffering emotional torture.
It would be like this:
You are not allowed to have any reaction to what she does because you are the one who made her react.
Knowing all that, being a reactor is actually the opposite of being non-reactive…
It means that all the power is in your corner. You cannot be unaffected by any negative influence.. the woman cannot affect you whether you like it or not… unless you are a reactor.
I can assure you that EVERY SINGLE woman that will have you will be a reactor. And the best thing is: You do NOT need to be non-reactive in order to be attractive.
