One of the problems that most men have when it comes to attracting women is that they are not decisive with the actions that they take when they are in a relationship. Women may like your charm and gentlemanly acts, but they still love a man who can make them feel like they are in charge every now and then. For women, being dominated by the man in the relationship is not a good thing, so they look for a man who can make all the decisions. If you want to become a master when it comes to attracting women, then you will have to learn how to make her feel like you are the sole person in the relationship.
If a woman has to make all the decisions, especially those that concerns interactions with you, she is never going to feel secure or confident in your relationship. If you as a man are able to become a master at making all the decisions for your relationship, she will become frustrated with you over time. Eventually she will just leave because you are not able to stand up to her or follow through on her decisions. Here are some examples of what she will usually do when you as a man make all the decisions.
Example 1 – Suggesting you sit and talk to her instead of going out some where else.
When you as a man make all the decisions for your relationship, then eventually she will feel insecure about going out somewhere else to go with you. She will probably turn down your invitations and end up going out with some guy who you never met and you will end up going to a bar or a club. A woman who is confident about going out will usually do not to go somewhere else, for fear that her decisions may be questioned by the man in her life.
Example 2 – Telling her that you will change your plans for her
Some women are very interested in you and they always have a good time with you. If you as a man make all the decisions however and you always end up making her change her plans, then chances are she will end up cheating on you or going off with some other guy. She will tell you how you are a nice guy and you are supposed to make her comfortable to be with you, but you must hold your reins. If you as a man always end up making her change her plans and you always react negatively to her then she will lose interest in being with you because you are not making any decisions for her.
Example 3 – Asking her where you can meet her for a date
It is nice when a man knows where he can find his lady. But if you as a man always end up asking her where she would like to go out on a date then you as a man has lost control. If you as a man are controlling the entire date and you are finding it difficult to find a place where you feel comfortable, you have to give her options. If you as a man are asking where she would like to go out for dinner then maybe she would prefer you picked her up at home and picked her up there. Women want to be treated with respect, and if you do not show her a little respect, then you will never be able to make her the special lady that she is looking to in your life. The average guy would say yes to this, but the average guy is looking for something that he really wants, and probably what the rest of his life is lacking.
Example 4 – Telling her how you would like things to end
Some men find different ways to end the date without offending the woman. For example, you could tell her that it has been nice to meet her. You could tell her that you really enjoyed your meeting with her. You could also tell her that you would like to stay in touch with her. However, you do not let her know that you would like to kiss her. If you as a man always end your dates this way, then this is another way that you are controlling the outcome of your date. This behavior sets you as the Involved, and the woman will know that even if you let her know you would like to date her again, it is up to her to make the decision to see if she is still interested. This is another way that you are not expressing to her that you would like to continue seeing her. She has to initiate, leading the interaction into a different direction, and away from what you might have wanted.
Example 5 – Not communicating your feelings to her
Men, this is huge. This is probably one of the main problems that guys have in relationships. If you are quiet, covering up your feelings will prevent you from having the woman. Many men have been defending themselves by telling women that it isn’t normal for men to be so quiet. This isn’t true, and women do need to hear how you feel about them.
