Learning that you’re dating a cougar woman can be a good thing. It means you’ve found a mature woman who is interested in fun, not settling down, not ready to have kids right away, and just flat out interested in playing the field a little bit. It can be a blow to the ego, but when you look at the compatibility and match make up, it can be a fun, exciting ride.
However, understanding how to read her and what she’s looking for and whether or not you feel it will work out over the long run could be a bit tricky. It’s part of the dating jungle out there-there are plenty of older women who are prepared to play, but there are plenty of younger ones who want to ride. What is a cougar woman open to doing? What are her feminine charms? What’s she looking for? Mate for those answers and you may not have to spend the monthsonediving.
1. Is she relaxed and in control?Not everyone falls into the “stand off” mode when they get home. If your cougar is calm and under control she’s going to make a good booty call and will probably give you a run for your money. Her sexual prowess also depends on how relaxed she is. If she really isn’t interested, you aren’t getting anything so play it safe. If she is confident and self assured it will be a lot easier to get a hot load of pleasure.
2. Who do you know?Are you a familiarity aka golden boy? Well, if she’s a cougar, chances are you have a lot of familiarity on her side. She has had a lot of time shopping around for the perfect prey and the golden boy / alpha male within her will be very enticing to you. A hot MILF is definitely going to be more enticing to you than a frat boy, trust me.
3. What do you like to do?While a lot of younger women could care less what you like to do, a cougar wants to do something a little bit different than younger women. She’s not interested in clubbing nights and their 12 piece suits. She’s interested in secluded skinny dipping, tennis, hunting and maybe a little extreme sports. Be brave and try something a little outside of your comfort zone. Five hellin’ hours ahead.
4. Where do you like to hang out?Most women at this stage will probably be spending a lot of their time at the mall. You want to try hitting the club a little. A cougar has a much different way of socializing. She knows the night life is way more exciting and usually not filled with drunks, wake ups and bleeping hots. So go on a few a night just about anywhere that isn’t a smoky dance club and you’ll find yourself spoiling her rotten.
5. Do you trust her?Cougar women are generally very trust worthy. If she’s not what you want in a girlfriend you’ve probably already figured it out. If she’s an older women out for one night stand action one night stand action, she’s probably been that way for a long time. Be careful not to cross the fine line and be a cad. cougars have an abundance of self-respect and could really care less if you do or say something wrong. Be a gentleman and respect her.
Remember that the key to a good cougar dating experience is not to look for the signs, but to do everything that feels right. And to know that she needs you, not your wallet. So always see the signs, not the tell tale signs. Things like suddenly closing up on her, having a sudden change of cutting you off, or suddenly not wanting to be a part of calling her back are all red flags that she could be looking for. Don’t be afraid to cross that line if you sense she’s warming up to you. It’s your responsibility to know the difference. Good luck, gentlemen!
