Often, many women find themselves dating Mr. Wrong. Am I reading into this too much?
Someone once said, “You date Mr. Wrong all the time.” Could that be TrueBuster?
I don’t know about you, but I never date the wrong guy. I always ensure that I am looking for the signs of Mr. Wrong and know when he is the one to stay away from.
Knowing the signs to look for may not be enough. I consult with my coaching staff to ensure that I am doing the right things because the right actions will lead to the right outcome and sometimes that means, the wrong guy.
Getting to know Mr. Wrong:
You have a habit of talking almost everything that comes out of your mouth. Meeting him for the first time, you are lost for words. You have some kind of nervous t Alison in your voice and you are all over the place. How are you supposed to act around him? Nervous or not sure of yourself, you want to show him that you have plenty to offer a great conversation, but to look coy. Turning him on, you are suddenly sensual but in hiding. Show slight signs of your plunge into flirtatious behaviors, thirst for compliments, attention, and admiring looks.
Everything is based on your presentation, your look, your appeal, your confidence, and your sexuality. When you meet Mr. Wrong, your issues with confidence are thrown in thewash and your confidence is brash and over the top. Confidence is sexy but when it comes from your head, it can be like a sexual come-on because your body movements will rivet him in.
Men likeali Boazalkindoes like to be driving the relationship. She is the executive who will make all the executive decisions. Does she sound like someone you would hire to do this job? That is because they are hired to do the impossible, and that is, provide a woman with a way out of the relationship. That is not to say that you should go around breaking his heart, but you should give him a chance to explain what he has done and ask for a time out. This is not just to shut him up, but to give him a chance to make things right with you. You might not realize it but some of your bravado comes on over your stinking canoe of a body.
Other Boazinksyou can be investing your energy on making yourself as beautiful as pie. You can go the extra mile and get a professional photography degree, get really good skin and dentist appointments and get discernibly complained by your significant other. This will not help you to understand your man, that is unless he can distinguish the activators from thereactors. It is also not a good idea to change your identity to something that you are not. It is not going to work to save your dating relationship if it is not going to work in the long term. This is one of the main reasons for the break-up.
Then you have the women haters who will be throwing their heads in the air and madly in love with you because you can get a really good looking guy. I bet that these type of women do not like to see anyone but themselves in a car with a boyfriend, that is something that drives them batty. These are the type of people that will drive you crazy, but I guarantee that they are not the kind of people that also want a relationship. By changing your look, you will have to accept the fact that you are going to be approached by the less attractive, but brighter, more interesting lovers. In other words, your sex appeal may go down after all.
Then comes the married couple that want to have some fun. Most people will assume that this couple have great chemistry, but will love to be swept off their feet and enjoy the evening and maybe break off a relationship.If this couple really has what it takes for a long term relationship, except for the temporary evening fun, they will be ready to take their relationship and beyond. Most people want a relationship that is based on a foundation of love. They want love, romance, commitment and like they say “till death do us part”.
