9 Things Men Look For When They Meet You

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We’ve all heard it before and we’re all pretty sure it’s true — men are attracted to women who look less than super. But, it’s not just men. Women are quick to realize the importance of a pretty face, so much so that they regularly spend hours in front of a mirror to ensure that they look “as sexy as hell.”

But, take it from a grown-up: men are actually looking for — and actually finding the life-changing beauty of — asign of confidence in a woman. So get ready, ladies, because nine times out of ten you’ll find that it isn’t looks that make a man decide you’re a woman of confidence. It’s the way that you carry yourself, the energy that’s screamed at him by the way you walk, move and talk.

1. A Feminine Glance

You know that men love to see a woman who looks up while they’re talking to her, so give men the opportunity to observe you from a distance and they’ll be kicking themselves for not asking you out sooner.

2. Your spontaneity

Imagine living the life of an adventurous, pro-feminine woman. Imagine all the adventures you could pursue without being at someone else’s beck and call. Imagine waking up in the middle of the night to go to bed just because it’s Saturday and no one to seduce is knocking at your door.

Being spontaneous gives men a portal to thinking of you as the ultimate gal. If you’re up for it, there’s no harm in trying out new things on the spur of the moment.

3. Confidence

type where you’re simply not bothered by small imperfections like blemishes. Men are attracted to women who exude confidence, and who never have to make major adjustments in their lives to get ahead.

4. Fun-loving

type of personality where you love to have a good time — not because you’re a party animal, but because you like living on the edge. Are you happier when you’re not like everyone else? Probably not. Are you better when you’re with a group of like-minded people? Most definitely.

An interesting trait that men want in women is one that can’t be nurture by being around the guy. Do the things that give you a twisted sense of humor. Work at expanding your world and exploring the world around you. An exciting woman doesn’t have to constantly be hanging on to the man, so let him give you a little leeway to try new things. A good relationship is about sharing new interests with each other, improving each other’s lives, and taking joy in life together.

5. Has a Good Sense of Humor

type yes, she doesn’t have to be exactly the same shape as you, but she must have a wonderful sense of humor. What is it about laughter that makes men’s legs jelly? For one, most men are looking for women who have the ability to laugh at themselves so they will be assured that they are the woman who can laugh at anything. They will be relaxed when they’re around her, too.

6. Sensible

type of personality where you notice the little things and convey to the men around you that you’re aware of even his smallest flaws. You’re not easily offended and you don’t nag or complain all the time, either.

Men don’t want to get a woman who is always on your back about the little things, either. No one has the right to make him feel bad about anything. Unfortunately, men are usually the complainers, complaining about a wide variety of things to get a reaction from the women in their lives. No one can help this, unfortunately. You just need to be open to hearing what he’s saying honestly and patiently. And don’t be petty, either. As much as men love to complain, you don’t want to discourage them from being honest with you by picking apart what they’ve said. It’s hard for a man to be silently trying to communicate with someone, too. Pick your battles, but aim to be heard.

7. Does not Use Men To Test Us Or To Get Goals From Us

We can easily mistake our partner for a ” motivator” and start to rely on them to ” motivate” us , rather than the other way around. Men need a woman who can motivate them , indirectly or directly , to go on a task. But most men, even the tough guys , need a woman who can just listen to them and let them speak about what they want, feel, think, or feel about a certain topic. You’re not on a task together; you’re on a date. And it doesn’t mean that you have to agree with everything he says. You don’t have to agree with everything he says, necessarily. Remember the aforementioned mutual respect aspect!

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