The big event of the year is coming. You’ve worked your way up to hello so now what? Now we all know the saying you have to shake it, to move it, to go get it, but what do you actually do that? Dating is actually more of a science than it is art. You have to do what you must do. You have to go with what you feel. There is no room for someone else’s agenda. You agree to what you must do but twist it just a little to see what might happen.
The first secret of dating is no secrets about yourself, you’re fine the way you are and leave some things to be surprised. Now that we have that out of the way we can talk about a subject we all know fairly well. Dating is when you and someone you are interested in have the chance to get to know each other. This is one of the reasons why dating is considered such a mysterious game. You are always fishing for new bait and trying out various new sizes and grades of bait all the time. You never know when you might pull out something that is a really good one until it is all put away.
Dating in the real world is not as much fun as it sounds. It can be very difficult to find someone worth spending lots of your valuable energy on. Often times it may seem easy, the conversations are easy, you hate to date anyone who does not spend a lot of time together, and yet the conversations are still pretty dull. It is enough to drive anyone completely out of their mind.
The thought is always present, not everyone is a person with nothing to say, life is still full of challenges and disappointments and possibilities and yet because these things are everywhere they are rarely directly confronted and spoken about. They remain simply unexamined. This means that no matter how smart you are, how charming and good looking you are, it is unlikely that you will encounter many good one’s who you might consider a match.
This is where the art of dating comes into play, you have to be able to pick up signs like and others to make the most of them and thus improve your chances of finding a good date. Signs of good dates are only really rare. For an excellent date you should strive early on to get someone on your side with a view to a long term successful relationship. Then only will true love find you again.
To enhance your chances of likelihood, you should start to alter the focus of your dates to places and activities that will boost your sensibilities and give you a competitive edge. The mission is to try and have as much fun as you possibly can. Try to be humorous and jovial, you need to aim for maximum frustration and annoyance. Be sure that at all times you are completely aware of your surroundings. And you must be adequately dressed as well.
Always aim to be sensitive to others feelings and not be so fixated on your desired outcome that you fail to consider others. Leave angry comments on blogs and websites and don’t get drunk and upset in public. You are not an angry and confrontational person. Your date will be much more impressed if you are a little more chilled out.
Also, once you have your potential date it is a good idea to make sure that they are comfortable. You can do this by making sure that you both have a shared room and that you are with a group of friends. This will provide an easy myriad of topics of conversation, of course you need to be extremely well mannered and make sure that you do not upset any living being. You are not a loner and you do not want to be looked at as a weirdo.
Once there are several minutes of chatting and general impressions are starting to build up, you can then try and decide whether this is the person for you and whether you want to continue to chat. Do not make the first date the deciding factor, be careful not to use it as a overrider for unresolved issues. A judgment call will and you will be much happier when you finally do meet under proper circumstances.
