Do you want to stop getting treated with the ‘me too’ attitude from women? Or maybe you just want to make some changes for the better. Regardless, if you are a guy that has been in the game for quite some time now and still hasn’t solved the puzzle when it comes to getting women that are actually WORTH your time and effort, then this article is for you.
I am going to go out on a limb here and tell you that yes, THE WAY you are interacting with women for the past several years has been TOO DIFFERENT. You probably did thing a lot differently before and even though you have read most of my articles on dating and searching, you probably still have not put two and two together regarding what you wanted to happen in your dating life.
From what I’ve understood through word of mouth and through what people have told me, a lot of guys out there feel like dating was not a big deal when they were in their 20’s or early 30’s. I can only speak for myself, though. I started dating at a really young age. Around the age of 18, I started to really focus on meeting and dating girls. I used to go out a lot when I wasn’t even out of my teens, as a way to meet new girls to date. My soul mate, femininity, was actually a very big deal to me at the time. This was especially evident in my younger years where I excelled in school.
I even attended university while I was in my 20’s. And once I got to the age of 25 when I had basically hit the high school and the first real relationship of my life (with a different girl), It wasn’t long until the familiarity wore off and I was back to being a confused 25 something guy again.
Now, I was around the right age of around 25 now when I was in my late 30’s, but I had no real clue what I was doing. I had no idea how to go about talking to women. And even worse, I did not know how to make it fun and enjoyable for me.
This is when I realized that there were probably other guys out there who felt the same way and had been going about it the wrong way for the longest time.
I began reading everything I could find on dating and seduction and the material I read was telling me that this was just a coming issue for me. It was going to be a problem for me no matter what I did. But after I put that stuff behind me I just kind of pushed myself into changing something.
I pushed myself to be in shape, I pushed myself to be more social, and I pushed myself to do and become better at talking to women. I’m not saying it was easy, by any means. It took me a good half dozen years but I did it.
Now, at this point, you may be thinking I almost died and remember only after I nearly did died.
But I have been married to the love of my life and about to enter my 3rd year of marriage. I am not special in any way. I do not get any special news. She is the most wonderful woman in the world.
I did it because of experience. I saw what other guys had done and I did it, more than once. incapacitating my own failures with regards to women and dating.
WhatNearly spacedmysofailing to do was stick to what I Knew.
And It’s a fine thing when you know the answer and you act on it. Sure, there are going to be times when you fail and get upset, and these things do happen to even the best of us. But these things are easily overshadowed by what you could have done differently as the result of actions of others.
As I Look at it, I can’t help but ask, what could I have done differently?
How Can I Make It Work For Me?
That is the question that is on my mind and that is on everyone’s mind at some point. I don’t know about you, but I am a simple guy.opy does things that I can’t fathom working for me. But honestly, just ask yourself the question.
At the end of the day, it comes back to what YOU want. And I know my answer. I want to meet someone that compliments me. I want to be happy. I want to be in a wonderful relationship, and I want to enjoy the process of falling in love and looking for the man that makes me happy.
