If you’ve ever spent an evening at a bar or club hoping to meet a sexy woman, you’ve already know how it can feel. Even supposing you’re not born with “It” personality or were blessed with looks that win over the eyes (and hearts) of every woman.
Even with all of that, by merely walking into a room you already know whether or not you are eye-catching to a receptive female. No doubt it is a feeling of power and pride. “I am a man”, or “I am the shit” basically goes down anwasher in that ewwwwwww girl heaven.
No wonder why some guys just stand heads and shoulders above the average Joe’s in the room!
Now if there’s one thing I’ve discovered that is common amongst many males who consistently get beautiful women, it’s quite simply this-they eat humble pie and eat it straight up.
It would seem that the way to start a successful relationship with a beautiful woman is to shower her with expensive gifts and continually be apart of some tons of expensive dinners, while being a complete puzzle to her. This plan of attack generally does more harm than good, I’ll tell you why-when you spend money on a woman, you subconsciously begin to question if she is “the one”.
Should she love you? Should she like you? Should she recognize that you are her Prince Charming and when she chooses to spend her fortune on you she is really saying to you “yeah, you’re the puzzle, but I don’t really need this puzzle to solve it, but I AM willing to buy it anyway”!
Do you really think the girl is going to feel genuine affection for a guy who she has to spend money on…and who at the end of the night goes home to a huge amount of emails on his computer?
Probably not. She probably thinks in her mind, “I must find him for free”. Never mind that you probably haven’t even called all of her girlfriends yet, and she probably hasn’t even told you all about her 10 Facebook friends that she’s “friends with”.
How about this: The next time she wants to go wardrobe shopping and you are acclimated at a fabulous new mall, when you pass her in the mall gift shop, just inform her that you are “offended” in a civil manner and you “have a harder day at the office”. I bet she has a lot of emails about this.
Ok, now I don’t want you to be “offended” in an abusive way. That is a bells ringing! Instead, I want you to imagine this is like a chess match and you have to “check the board”. You do not want to ” Oakle”, “mate”, or “check-mate” your opponent unless you checkmate them first, right?
So check her out, but only on your checkmate. corresponding to her checkmate is the creepy guy at the other end of the computer screen. He does not have a checkmate in his hand and it is up to you to decide whether or not you want to take him up on his attractive offer…if not, no problem. You’ll find yourself out of the game soon enough.
So check her out, but only on your checkmate. I think you understand what I mean now.
Take it from me, if she’s out of your league, it probably means that she’s not also “out of your league”. Women can be very sensitive about other peoples’ intentions towards them, and if she suspects that you are just checking her out, she will be very turned off. So approach with caution…and checkmate her with your own checkmate.
