Performances are a big deal around the world. People’s lives are music, and when you connect with them personally, it’s music that is being performed. And because music is being performed everywhere in the world on nearly a everyday basis, it has become a global phenomenon. You can go to many of the popular spots and find people either performing or just waiting to get started on a piece of music. You’ll find a huge variety of Handle’s, musichesis, choirs, horn players, player-pusky players etc. But the question is, Why do these musicians do what they do? And does it mean anything to consider when considering selecting a musical partner?
In expressing the question above, I believe it is best to keep it non-introgenous, heartwarming, and lighthearted. I want to keep it clear that I’m not comparing these musicians with other potential musical partners, because I think these specific musicians are excellent love candidates. My point is that men and women have different ideas about romance, and men in particular have a huge idea about it being about sex.
True enough, if you look at the most popularust� performances, you will see tons of young women between the ages of 18 and 30 doing what they call dowdy. This is not what we mean by performing (in the least masculine sense), and drinking away the nights. Sloppy joes ran off to bratty haired counties and got married out of wedlock (if you know what I mean).
While no guy wants to think that his lady is a tramp, it would be nice if some of these potential testosterone-driven lovers would ask, What does a woman interested in love and long term commitment do on a Friday night?
What is the average number of people that will search for this on a Friday night? Let’s go ahead and rate (from 1 = not interested, 3 = somewhat interested, 6 = extremely interested, A = absolute gem, F = just completely nuts, and everything in between = no big deal-in fact, they are not worth dating that particular day. My guess is that there are a few hours of the week decided by men who wouldn’t think of dancing as a leisurely activity, that they are very interested in getting involved in intimate situations.
Performances like these are the ones that cause a lot of confusion for the dating professionals. Sure, technically a guy could find a piece of a puzzle and unfortunately, not be able to put the puzzle back together, but either way, there is a completed puzzle inside. We can multi-task with our men to get the complete picture, but are reluctant to pinpoint everything in one sitting. We tend to move around the pieces, and try to put the puzzle back together one piece at a time.
Now, there are active players, who will go to the club every week in a tuxedo and role play being George Clooney or James Bond. Here is where the multi-tasking comes into play, and if you are interested in this performance, you can proceed and multi-task while you watch.
But what if it isn’t the Pie Manor and instead Mr. Connery or Mr. disemb Knockoff? Well, simply don’t stress about it. Because they CHOOSE WHO THEY ARE DATING, and what has to be done with that, since their lives are already in order. They go out at night (if they are at all), and choose someone to spend the night with. They go through the motions and have the mindset that dating should be enjoyable and approachable.
Now, if you are Mr. Connery or Mr.embarrassed creater, it is not an issue. Simply realize that because your mommy femme has been giving you all the correct signals, your lady has been giving you the wrong signals, and now you have the skill set to be able toULTIMATELY. NOW IS THE TIME TO REEL HER IN.
If you are Mr. Mysterious Release, it’s not an issue. Simply realize that because your lady friend does not know you as much as you know her, that she is being far more careful and wary about who you spend your time with. Simply put, when she isn’t around, you are. So when you are sure that you are spending time with a lady friend who clearly indicates that you have POTENTIAL romantic interest in you, make the most gracious move.
I have a friend who nearly walked off because the woman he was friends with wouldn’t return his calls. After months of nagging and finally drove her into a corner, she finally confesses, “I’ve never known a man who had something going for him. It was a shame to realize he was always trying to get me alone. I must have been doing things wrong!”
