Okay, so it happened. You had sex with a guy and not only are you now trying to figure out how he actually feels about you but you are also afraid that his lowered interest could decrease and he could possibly not like you anymore. How do you find out if he would ever begin to like you again or not?
It’s all about the way he communicates with you.
Your guy was crass, uninhibited and without a care in the world for you. All that this man had to say to you was, “Yeah, baby, lay back baby.” But now that he’s learned a thing or two about crass behavior, it still won’t be easy to communicate with him. He would have to show signs that he’s still the same guy that you knew from the very beginning.
It’s all about how you react.
Guys are completely different from girls so it would be difficult for him to understand what you’re going to say or how to read your mood. It’s difficult to to drive him to do something when you’re in the middle of the act. You can ask a hundred questions all you want but it’s not gonna be easy to lay him open at the same time.
It’s all about the act itself.
Seducing a man may be easy but to keep him for good requires that you keep up with the act. This is the only way to shed stray pieces of the past. If you’ve been in a relationship and you’ve slept with it before but now you’re starting to feel queasy, you can again lay off. Your man would stay faithful to you if you hold off on the sex for a while.
It’s possible that it was your fault.
There are guys out there who are predators-Implants. These particular guys are the worst. They go out of their way to hurt women, whether it’s emotionally, physically or even sexually. It’s now your responsibility to protect yourself. If he’s a predator, you can get away with simply escorting him to a police station. But a village-folk is another story.
You can ask forgiveness.
Or you can look for a deeper reason. You can readily assurance his feelings to you that it’s not personal. But it’s still not something that’s easy to bear to ask. You can ask that you have mistakes that you can share to him and assure him that you’ve already done a lot to change for the better. You can ask him to make all the necessary changes. But it all depends on how prepared he is.
Or you can dump him.
The last resort is the most drastic. You can tell him your bad feeling and to leave the table as soon as the Amusement Park goes on. This may be the one that would free you from his presence. It would be hard to do but it is still the best. God knew it would be hard to hurt somebody in this manner. Is he worth it? Will he remain faithful until such time as you’ve completely moved on?
You can pray for a change of attitude.
Finally, you can always turn to the side of faithfulness. If he’s still the same sweet guy that he was before, then it only means that you already have the same amount of faith in him. If he has truly changed, then maybe this is the time to give him a chance. Perhaps there will be a reason someday why you’re so mad at him. But for now, you should give him a chance and hope that his old ways will change for the better.
