Does he want you to be his girlfriend or not? Have you been dreaming for him to ask you to be his girlfriend, but knowing in your heart that he doesn’t? Are you spending time together and still cannot seem to figure out where he is coming from? If he is a new guy, things can be rather confusing. You are excited about being with him, yet still cannot fathom what he is thinking. Here are seven thoughts that might give his thoughts little puzzle.
1. Is it all about sex or does he want more?
For the first few weeks or months, he probably was not thinking about anything deeper than sex. But as you got to know him, there may have been moments when he enjoyed making love to you. Or perhaps, when he thought about those wonderful feelings, he realizes that they could belong to someone else.
Is it his job to answer your question? Well, it’s up to him so you should not let your excitement get in the way.
2. Is he mentioning places he would like to see you?
Is he asking you to dinner or is he suggesting you go to play tennis with him? Well, he does not want to just throw his arms around you when he feels like it. A guy would probably be asking you out at these times if he was seriously interested. However, if he is just turning up at your favorite places without making any special effort to see you or if he is only making pleasant conversation, then you might not be his type. It should be your call if you are interested with him.
3. Has he introduced you to his family?
This is important because so many men take their best hopes with them when they introduce a girl to his parents and very few go beyond this. If he has taken the first step, he wants a future with you. You are now officially a part of his world and you can start calling yourself his girlfriend.
4. Is he talking about you to others?
When so many girls come together after a big move in their lives, they tend to babble about their new friends. If he has taken the steps to introduce you to his friends, you can say that he is proud of you. He would want others to think well of you. He would also be nervous if you tell others that you are so interested with him.
5. Does he want to be with you?
Every guy has the urge to chase a woman. He would want to have you with him always. But for a serious girlfriend, he will make sure that you belong to him. He happily tells others that you are his exclusive girlfriend or that you are “his one and only”. This means that he is serious not just to you but you. You still don’t know whether he wants you to be his girlfriend. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn’t. Well, you are now his girlfriend if he is proud to tell others that you are his one and only (although he probably tells the same to several people)
6. Does he make you happy?
Does he buy you presents for no reason? Or does he make sure that you have a good time when you are together? When you are finally together, is he happy? You will know how satisfied your man is just by looking at his eyes. He would probably be very happy if you are happy. He would be very jealous if you spend a great day with someone else while he is stuck with you. Try to see if he is content when you aren’t together and you will know for sure.
Remember that online dating is very similar to this. You have to put yourself out there in the world in the hope of meeting Mr. Right. There is always a chance of finding love when you least expect it. Everyone wants to be with someone who is happy.
