You need to look good if you want to make a very good impression on women. And to make a good impression on women, you have to be well groomed and equipped with new clothes, shoes, etc. Do not forget to bring those in your daily life and check yourself before going to where you are going. Your external appearance can sometimes help you with women because they want someone who looks neat and cared for. It can be helpful to choose clothes according to body built and color. If you are short and stocky, pick dark colors or something that will complement with your skin tone. If you are tall and gangly, go for bright or pastel colors, especially if you are wearing it for a special event. Take a model or see one of your own pictures in a magazine and try to adjust it to match your body build. You have to be in good shape and relatively lean.
After you are well dressed and ready, now you can try to strike a conversation with the woman you are interested in. Learn how to listen to her and make her the center of your world. She is beautiful and you want to see her attractive side. Learn to establish eye contact, are you with me? Wait for her to make a response and show her that you are interested in talking to her. If she is the one who asked you out, she is probably nervous and you have to be understanding of that. How else can you get to know someone if you are in a highly uncertain mood? Now, onto the next tip that you need to know.
Self care is the key to a healthy relationship and after you have established eye contact, approached the woman, and talked to her, you have to care about this connection or romance. I know you have busy lives but making time for this thing is important. I keep hearing people say it is time to get back to school or work but think about your love life. If you are not able to make it, let that not bother you. Call your girlfriends and tell them to check on you (they have your best interest at heart, right?). If you cannot pick her up, call a close friend and tell him or her to just give you the number of the girl. It is easier for you to connect with her again now. Once you are on the phone with her, start out by making her laugh. If you have not made her laugh already, try to crack a joke that you think may interest her. Go for a joke in an interesting way. You may find out that you do not have that much humor or you think the joke is not that funny to her. That is okay. After all, it is just a conversation. If she is also laughing, you are on the right track.
Try to find ways that can make you both laugh. A good one is for you to swap funny stories. Tell her what happened to a friend and then listen to her telling of how something similar happened to you. Genuinely listen to her. If she is the reserved type, she will appreciate that you share your stories with her. By sharing with her, you can truly share a good laugh. Usually, you can tell a joke to break the ice slowly. Do not fall over yourself but do not try to be too serious. Try find ways to let her know that you want to share a few laughs with her. If you do not, she may think that you are mocking her to make her laugh. Hence, she may not laugh with you.
If she does, let her know that you are a funny and interesting guy. And after a few minutes of laughter, if she is also trying to play the game, start making conversation with her. If you can, share your funny stories with her. If you are comfortable with each other, then you are on your way to the next level of your friendship.
If you have followed these steps, you would have enjoyed a few hours of laughter and good times. It is always good to throw ones away sometimes. You do not want it to end there and leave you hurt and disappointed.
Like it or not, sooner or later you will have to face rejection some times in a relationship. Therefore, do not stay in the retreat phase if it does not work the way you want. Sometimes, you need to say and do certain things to win the girls heart and make her interested in you. These are very simple but not necessarily easy to do.
