Being able to attract woman can be hard work; especially if you’re not good looking or if you have a lots of personal issues keeping you from moving forward in life. But it’s not impossible, and this article will give you a few simple tips to help you get started on the right foot.
Whenever you talk to a woman you’re interested in, you want to stay focused on her as much as possible. Doing this will help you develop a deeper, more compelling conversation with her and give you a better chance at seeing her again. Listening to her and asking questions about her interests will also help to show her that you’re interested in her and will allow her to open up to you about what she has going on in her life.
You always want to be having fun in any conversation you’re in with a woman. This means you should be laughing, flirting, teasing, and totally enjoying yourself. This will help to keep things light and relaxed between the two of you. If you can manage to keep things relaxed, you’ll have a much easier time moving the relationship forward and Winning sets of singles at one of the local bars.
Lastly, always be yourself. You don’t want to get stuck being someone you’re not with a woman you’re interested in. That’s not only awkward, but it makes you really seem like a fake. Know what your intentions are with her and don’t be ashamed about them. If you’re really into her, then being yourself should be obvious. If she doesn’t like you for who you are, then it’s best to move on and work on someone who does like you.
Without further ado, 4 easy steps to help you succeed at getting a crush on a woman. Here’s the first, so let’s go:
1)Plant the seeds for seeds of attraction
When talking to a woman you’re interested in, phrase things like, “I noticed something about you that’s so interesting,” but don’t tell her what it is. Instead, wait for her to mention something when the two of you are talking. Just casually take a look at her hair and say something like, “you know, I would have to get my mom to help me with this,” then ask how she’s been doing. Smile at her and ask her if she’s always like this or if she’s ever done something like this. This is where you put the seed for her to really get interested in you. She’ll almost always want to know what you mean and how you know what. She’ll be asking you questions and you answer as honestly as possible. Any woman will be really impressed by your ability to listen, and the fact that you’re so interested in her all of the time will make her want you even more. If you want to get a girl cracking up laughing, this is how it’s done.
2)Pick up on that joke she said
This isn’t exactly a step in getting her to like you, but it will give you a great way to start getting a dull and boring conversation going. Actually, becoming a good listener is a great quality to have. When she’s talking about something and you don’t want to talk about something, she’ll be naturally drawn to you, mostly because you are letting her talk while you listen. This has got to stop you from spending your nights alone. This is best done by letting her complete the conversation and asking questions from time to time.
3)Tell her something about your life
Women love a guy who is interested in other people. We’re not talking about just one girl here, rather a list of women you are interested in, all of whom can be in your life. For example, if she asks what you do for fun, you could tell her that you play volleyball, but then go into details about how you actually enjoy it and what you enjoy doing when you aren’t playing. If she asks what you were doing the other weekend, keep it as short and interesting as possible, but then elaborate several nights a week. Here is another way to use these ideas for your advantage: each woman will want to discuss one of your interests with you in return. If the interest is bear in the fishing field, each woman will want to know how you fish. If it’s snowing where you live, each woman will want to know about the date you went on last winter when it was over. Build on your list and make notes, going out on the town tonight with your wingman to each of these and planning what you have going on in the near future.
4)Don’t forget to talk about sex when you feel like making love.
There’s little more sex-oriented of a topic for a first meeting than sex. Bars provide plenty of opportunities to do just that.
