The Truth About Men – The Inevitable Question

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Every single woman that has ever loved has always asked one question. “How come men seem to run away when it’s really not that bad?” I want to share the truth about men with you today. We as men are pretty happy to run away if we think it’s that bad.

I was heartbroken once too when I really felt like it was finallyReal Timeloveme. Now, that doesn’t mean that we should all be considered equally painful. I certainly had my moments with men who were actually worth my time and didn’t make me feel guilty for leaving. But in my heart, it was plain and simple- I HATE when men dump women.

But men wouldn’t tell me the truth. They wouldn’t open up. And in my mind, that’s where the problem lies. You see, I didn’t start this convo’ because I wanted some Peace in my life. What I really want is for men to actually open up to talk about how they feel, to show their vulnerability. I want men to want to show their emotions and tell women how much they care about them. But 99.99% of guys are too scared to talk about what’s really going on in their hearts. (even f owe it to themselves)

So where does that leave us ladies? A Diva(ology) out in a beautiful world. Hiding ourselves away from the real men out there. Can someone ever be happy being in a relationship with someone like that? I never thought I would feel this way but there is just something so scary about men who are wimpy. It’s like wimpy heart break: when it’s over, it’s often a quiet physical recognition that it isn’t really over. Men are just scared to be vulnerable.

Now, the first thing I want you to do is lay down the law. You don’t ever want toMother Nature. We are not built to be cuddly most of the time. ( nor should we be.) Start speaking up! Let all the men know what you want, loud and clear. You want romance? Romance at its best. You want emotional? Tell them. You want an adventure or a whirlwind of adventure? Tell them! Now, before you start giving out the laws, remember, too, we already know what you want. You want a good man! ( and that’s YOU! ) I know you do.

So, why don’t men share that with you? Simple. They don’t want to be told what to do. Men are just scared of confrontation. Even the men that have the courage to come out and tell you what is wrong ( and then fix it ) are usually at a loss at how to effectively put it into words. We, women, we just assume it’s because he really is a catch. ( although, the men that really put forth the effort have usually said it nicelyaudibly right in your hearing )

Now, if it’s not because he just doesn’t care or he feels like he doesn’t have to put forth much effort, or he just isn’t interested, the best thing to do usually is just move on. Remember. It Isn’t always that way. And besides, who really wants to put up with anyman’s crap. There are plenty of great men all around you. I promise.

I wish I could tell you women would suddenly become interested in all this romantic stuff like we were all supposed to be. But unfortunately, times have chalksed us up to some pretty terrible behaviors just in the name of love. If you wait long enough, these behaviors could actually get better. It takes maturity. Times really are changing. If you think maturity won’t come about, think again. This is a whole heap of change happening and women are jumping in head first. Just talk to that attractive guy. Perhaps you’re his girlfriend. Perhaps you’re wife. Or you just want him for a fun-time buddy. But don’t worry. He wants the same thing. I mean, all that matters to him is that he feels great around you and your boyfriend coming home to you in the morning ready to have some more fun. Not so much worry about how he behaves, right?

Remember to thank him for the great evening and let him know how much he means to you.

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