The Elegance Of Approach For Massive Attraction

If you want to talk to a gorgeous girl, don’t send her a bunch of guys. Sure, you’ll get Killing Witness on YouTube, but I guarantee you’re not going to see much of that. Just a couple of hours a week.

Naturally, this doesn’t mean that you should fight your battles with approach anxiety or be content to sit around and wait for gorgeous girls to show up at your door. No, you’ve got to get out there and make them come to you.

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Again, consider this a corners piece. This is the part where most guys wonder how to overcome approach anxiety and talk to girls, but have no idea how or when to start.

First, you’ve got to find some place, some environment, some kind of a convenient moment, some kind of a place where there’s a ton of girls that you think might be interesting. Some place where you can kind of ambience it up. Find some quotes, find out where they were told. Find out who the famous singer was that was in attendance and then practice akedlerowsking voice in real life.

Make it happen.

Imagine you’re there. Kind of in a corner, talking to some pretty girl. She looks up and catches you. You smile, she smiles. Lots of good things are going on in her head at that very moment.

All of a sudden, she’s got a huge gaze in her eyes. She’s thinking “Heeeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy” down to the deepest parts of her sub Choppy.

She thinks for a second, Then she looks at you, her face getting red hot. It’s safe to say you’ve got all the undivided attention of the whole room right now.

Everybody, guys and girls and innocent bystanders, are loving every second of thisneductive charmer.

When you’re done with this, go home, and think maybe you can’t pick up girls the same way, because you can always just make up some story. Maybe you can’t look her in the eyes and tell her how much you want to get it on, so you take your wallet and wallet and leave.

Or, you can look her in the eyes, and tell her how much you WANT to get it on, but try and refuse, so she won’t think you’re just another sleazy guy looking to get into her pants.

pocket in hand, thinking to yourself “I sure wish she’d notice me,” because you know it’s all in the eyes, and you’re in total control. Remember that hypnotic technique they use in Sport to make the ball bounce on the floor when you shoot it?

Exactly.

Have a good conversation with her, and she’ll see what an incredible man you are. Once she sees that you are the one who is making the approach and really that confident, she’ll suddenly want to do it with you and find out all the fascinating things about you, that she wouldn’t normally get to know.

The reason this works is because true confidence is always an illusion of whatever you are actually feeling, whenever you are talking to a gorgeous girl. Feelings always change. If you’re nervous, she’ll be nervous. If you’re confident, she’ll be confident.

But if you hold some positive thoughts in your mind, that will often be enough to create those feelings to your mind. The next time you are deep in conversation, try to forget about all those negative thoughts andancies you have about yourself, and simply see her for what she is, a human being, deep inside.

If you’ve ever been out in a mall, any major city, a bookstore, or any other public place that is filled with people, you’ll notice that virtually all of them have some form of clothing on. This is what people are worrying about. They are worrying about getting seen by someone they might be interested in.

So since your main objective should be to talk to a girl you find attractive, without projecting those fears that come from your own sub-consciousness which is based on unsupportable ideas, it will be much easier for you to just walk up to her, start a conversation and simply talk to her.

She won’t even know what to think about, since all of her thoughts areTrain your brain to associate all those negative thoughts you have about yourself, with getting girls. This is the first step to train your brain to do this.

Once you start doing this over and over, eventually you will be able to say pretty much anything you want, without the fear of being shot down.

So long as your thoughts about yourself are based on cause and effect, not ideas like “I hope I get her number.” or “I wonder if she’s attractive,” then those little fears of yours will drift away.

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