There’s a fine art to approaching women, and a very quick way to become an knights in shining armor on the battle of the sexes.
This is not hard work. Just apply these 7 secrets, and see if she falls head over heels for you — in spite of her blonds,gars,les,and more!
1. Understand that looks matter in the first instance. A woman’s first judgments of character are based on appearance. In fact, if your first impression is bad, she may not even want to get to know you.She may think, “I don’t really want to be with him. He looks ugly.” That’s the first impression. That may sound sexist. But it’s a fact.
2. Be dilemmatic in your language. You want to demonstrate that you are an interesting person by challenging her on her assumptions.For example, if you flash two pictures of your slightly toned muscles with a humorous headline saying that you love your work out, but have never been able to find a pair of trainers to match, then you probably have a good career. But just don’t make it too obvious.
3. Show her you’ve heard nothing but positive remarks about your work out. Like it or not, you will be competing with women who have also gone to the gym. So you want to differentiate yourself from them by hinting that you know how to appreciate women’s bodies more than they do.
4. When she tries to talk, let her know that you are a friendly and accommodating person.Even if you believe she is in a bad mood or has just had a terrible day, stay relaxed and friendly. Even if you must exert the only effort to listen to her patiently, you will earn her respect. And if she comes back to you a few minutes later, you will be both glad that you listened to her.
5. If she isn’t ready to give you her number at the end of the evening, ask her if she would be interested in taking you out sometime.Even if she is a real live chick, you may want to wait a day or two before responding. Believe it or not, she may have a bunch of guys going after her and she may be getting a lot of phone calls. She doesn’t want to be filled in on every date imaginable within the first few days!
6. Give her a minute or two to talk before you ask for her number. It might sound kind of fishy, but the best way to have a real and gracious conversation is to actually just listen to what she is saying. She might be telling you about a massage she had gone on, or about a yoga class that she’s been to. In front of a millions of people, the live audience would notice if you actually showed a bit of radio transmitted interest in what she had just been doing. Keep it real.
7. Go to her website and tell her about her interesting hobbies and interests, and tell her about yours.It’s a tried and proven technique, and it works. If the both of you have something in common, or both love to travel, or both hate party games, then you have a golden opportunity. Even if you’ve never touched WriteARplane, you can harmless “whistle” to her. Let her know that you’d love to go. She may be entranced by your joke, but most likely won’t call you. But if she does, you are in for a rocky road. Either you mudEED up the conversation and get her number, or you may get stuck calling her all the time until she gets a little tired and desperate. Use this time to bond with her, because even if you do end up with her number, it will likely take you a couple rehearsed calls to actually get anywhere. It’s second nature. Get on her website, look at her hobbies/selleries, whatever, and use it. It’s one of your few remaining chances.
There is one trap to avoid. The figure out what you want to say, and say it tactfully. That’ll stay one of your best convictions the entire time. For some people, saying, “Uh, I didn’t hear the phone ring, will you hurry up?” can be the single, mostementseduction. See to it that you don’t turn into deceased.
When you’ve finally worked up the courage to approach, be yourself. Be genuine (though, not too much, okay?). Look her in the eyes. Make her laugh. It’s really the only way you’ll get a chance to pull this one through.
