The Allure Of The Unavailable Man

Women long for a special kind of man. This man is incredibly confident, not dependent on anything or anyone, and completely unattached. Would you care to answer the universal question of what do men want from women. Let’s exclude gender roles for a moment and examine this question from start to finish.

Okay, start with the basics. Men like, reasonably, to have women as their friends. They like asking them questions about their career, their interests, their relationships with other people. They like to use the word “I” a lot. A man will prefer a unavailable woman to a woman who is clearly available. Why, you ask? Men like the mystery, the untimely attention, the furtive look. The overhearing conversations that lead nowhere. The recalling of forgotten anecdotes. Theoretically, if a man asks a woman out, he must like her. Men are hunters. They like chasing a woman.

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Now, this is not the total opposite of what happens, but men, as a group, are genetically wired to be attracted to very specific kinds of women. So, when a guy tells you that he is not interested in any more, it is hard to believe, especially if he seems to have attempted to date you more than once. And why is it you do not trust him? Because you really like him and want to believe what he says. There is simply no evidence to support his telling you he is not interested in you. You tend to trust his word. Why?

Because you are wired differently. Your biology and hormones are speaking to you even when the man who dares to speak to you beforehand is telling you that he is not interested.

The Secret whispering to be careful what we say is actually a truth.wired differently. Remember this. How do men try to hide the fact that they are not interested? At the same time, they would not usually suss out the fact that they are not interested either. So, when they go to you and do express interest, it’s in such a seemingly open and trusting fashion. They don’t try to cover it up.

The female brain works in a different way. Our biology as women is speaking to us all the time. The truth is that men like to pursue. That’s just part of their nature. When they are really interested, they don’t get tired and they do not check their value. So, men become extra sensitive to whether or not we like them. Remember, alpha males are likely to be persistent even when he is not achieving what he wants.

So, if you are a woman who is truly interested in a man, watch how he behaves when he is pursuing you. If you see him follow up with you quickly, even when he knows that you have other plans, that is very telling.

Now, if he does not pursue at all and actually makes plans to meet you, that’s when you know he is looking for something casual. You are being sent into the date or the next time you are together in a pool full of fish. So, you don’t send a man away. You don’t let a man get away. Remember, life is all about survival. What else can you do? You may beGroup dating.Interact with more than one man at a time because this is a lifestyle that will Himself protect you, ensure your safety and wellbeing, and ensure that the other man treats you as the value that you have.

Remember, this world is only for the human kind. If we are to have future relationships and set Try Guys free from the kind of women who still leave them when they become men, then we must train men to get educated, raise their female offspring, and provide the conditions for survival that only the fittest can. Learn how to become a man that feels life and death for you. Learn how to become a man.

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