Do you want to know how to make a man jealous? Do you want to know how to take your current interest or relationship to the next level? Do you want to know how to spice things up in your relationship? Keep reading…
Now that you’ve been dating for awhile, it’s no mystery that you feel the need to spice things up in your love life. Men are affected by being around attractive women; it’s just a fact. However, not all women know how to make that happen…which leaves those who don’t know how to play the jealousy card frustrated and looking for ways to get their guy’s attention.
If you want to become one of the women who can make men jealous, continue reading the following tips.
Pay Attention to What He Does, Not What He Says
If your man is acting distant, don’t automatically think he’s having an affair. A few men feel it’s their duty to distance themselves from a cheating spouse, but most men are more searching for reassurance of their manliness than they are an affair.
Men generally don’t like to be the focus of a woman’s attention. So if you’re one of the women who constantly checks up on your man, you may be making him think that what he’s been up to is wrong.
If you pay attention to what he does rather than what he says, he may start to wonder why that’s exactly what you’re mostly doing.
Fight the Urge to Stalk
If your guy is increasing the amount of time he spends away from you, his natural reaction may be to stoke the fire and find out what’s making you so intrigued.
If you persist, he may come to believe that its your intense interest in him that has made you more annoyed than ever. If you’re expressing too much interest, he may feel pressured to do something you deem as more romantic.
The best way to avoid this is for him to learn how to tease you effectively. Your job is to not express too much interest in your man.
Create a Chicken Dance
Instead of sending your man an annoyed, nagging note, try a different approach. You can show him how intelligent you can be by creating a dance where you break off one arm, then pull him close to you, and then break off another arm, and so on.
Your man will probably find this embarrassing and inadequately romantic. So instead of calling him constantly to ask what he’s doing or to insist that he come home, think of something else to do instead.
That’s not to say that you can’t let him know that you care. You should remind him how much you care and how important you are to him but anything you do should have him feeling secure and understood.
Be Possessive
If you’re tired of his flirtatious ways, try toassure him that you’re serious about how you feel.
If he’s had a tough day, pamper him. Show him your concern and try to seduce him back into your arms using your sudden newfound Chanel No.5 perfume that you know he adores.
Remind him that he’s the best thing to happen in your life and he wouldn’t have it otherwise.
Pamper his Taste-Bits
If he’s been snobbish around you, reduce his visitation next time he weekend gets to visit you. Since your guy has been footing the bill all this time, clear that budget in your mind immediately.
Cook some warm, cozy nights for your guy. This will definitely spice things up in the bedroom and in life.
Reschedule Dinner with Friends
If your guy suggests a dinner date with friends, counter with an idea of going to a nice, mellow movie instead. That’s not to say you have to settle to go to dinner, but you should be under no pressure to go.
Your best bet is to suggest a short walk, a movie and exchange pizza and energy drinks. If you do the party sounds nice, so do his!
Love is a battlefield and every woman has Hummer in her closet. So, know what makes your man tick and use his instincts to your advantage.
