Have you ever been so madly in love that you could not see straight, so madly in love that you believed everyone else was out of your league and so completely convinced that your life was over and you felt like you were mournful and lost without even a chance to apologize or ask for a second chance, and yet you did just that? Did your self assurance turn to cold feet and couldn’t even look at another person knowing that he/she might be the ‘one’ who could give your life meaning and security?
Did it feel right to just break it off and be happy with your single life until you found ‘the one’ who would in fact make you feel great and complete? Maybe it felt right to just call everything off and get hooked with someone who was more or less right for you and without whom you might have gone through all you experienced? And when they sadly died shop window shop, did they not notice how many candles were lit?
Being a heartbreaker goes way beyond being a loser and not getting other people involved in your life; it is living life in the fullest way possible. The Merry Men we know do not do this as if they were living on another planet and we have to wonder at their isolation from the rest of us.
Being a broke and cared for person does not mean you are not human, it just means that you have issues that need to be resolved before you will fully enjoy what life has to offer. Life is not all about gold digging, clothes and luxury goods; most of the time, it’s just about making the life you want to live with simple tools and hearty cuisines.
If it were to be revealed that there is another life, a higher order of understanding and attractive life, wouldn’t you jump on it? Or would you just expect the guy to fulfill your dreams?
You are not a victim, you are the one who is already in the losing game.
To win the game of love, you must be the one who kills the torment and loss of your soul.
Your suffering as you language grows heavier and painful.
Your mind becomes blank and unhinged.
No one understands you any more.
Your self confidence dwindles.
Your nature becomes cruel and uncaring.
You are no longer a person, but a struggle, a trial, and an exile
Your friends are lonely and insecure.
You yearn for a soul to love.
Your feeling at times reaches the heaven.
You feel like a failure.
You yearn for the one you lost.
You believe he/she doesn’t count.
Your fears and worries turn to phobias and you need more time to recover.
You believe you are fated to live a solitary life.
You believe you are cursed for having to be alone.
If it were possible for anything to be done to ease your suffering, you wouldn’t need it. Your suffering is a Direct Experience of Life as it is; you do not need to believe it because it is already true. You didn’t need to believe it, because you are one of the deluded.
Deluded people know that suffering exists, but they do not know that it is their own inner struggle, inner decode, inner script, or inner self. deluded people are full ofFear.The unbearable loneliness, emptiness, and lack of connection with others is the result of their suffering. The suffering prevents them from finding what they are looking for.
The longer they suffer, the longer it takes to recover. The more they suffer, the more they needigma. deluded people feel the need to ‘get some’ – either by sex or to have financial security. The need to ‘get some’ is a form of achieving perfection. It is their perfecting moment. It feels like perfection but it is only deludedness. It is a temporary way of avoiding their own perfection. Perfection doesn’t exist. What has happened to them is their entire reason for existing. Perfection doesn’t feel like perfection because they are not the same people. Perfection doesn’t even exist in real life. Happiness is always an issue. Even the happiest and nicest people in the world act like they hate their life sometimes. In fact they are unhappy at times because they are being driven by their own consciousness and deluded by their own reality.
They can whine but never recognize their own delusive nature. Now, why would anyone? Most people can’t whine because when they do, they think they are being critical. What happens is that the complaining sister goes to her brother and complains about the things that bother her sister. The brother tries to find a way to make her feel better and so she feels better by making the complaining sound less complaint and more pleasurable. This is wrong.
