You are in a club. The music is blaring, the drinks are flowing and beautiful women are all over the place. You see a woman across the way that catches your attention. She must be looking at you because she is giving you clear signals that she is interested in you as well. Yet, you have no idea how to approach her and get her to go home with you.
Believe it or not, you do not even have to be that smooth. Even if you are average looking, and not that rich either, you can still learn how to get a woman to notice you and approach you. It is easy once you know what you are doing.
1. Dress Well
Women like men who dress well. Of course, this does not mean that you have to wear designer apparel to attract women. You do not have to spend a fortune on clothes because she will eventually learn to see what you wear and who you are wearing it with.
Rather, you should dress up in a way that you act, feel and look good. You can then nurture the attraction that you have for each other until you realize that “this is the person I want to be with for the rest of my life.”
2. awill you approach her?
Before you can think about going up to her and introduce yourself, you must first understand what women want from men in general. Meeting a stranger and dazzling her with your looks is one thing. However, attracting a woman and making her comfortable with you is another.
If she is a woman that you are comfortable with, you will see that she will smile at you and laugh if she talks to you. These are signs that she is comfortable with you.
That is not the only thing looking into her eyes. Here is what you should do next.
3. Touch Her
Come on, everyone does it. You want that dramatic look on your face, right? Well, you can get it there. All you have to do is touch her gently, censorship if necessary.
Let me give you an example. When you are talking to her, don’t be afraid to touch her. When she is telling you about something, be a good listener and touch her on the hand every now and then without making it seem as if something is wrong.
The goal is to have a soft touch on her hands, elbows and shoulders. Here is another example. When you are speaking, be sure to grab her hand or her elbow to make you have to read the content again.
If she is not comfortable with you touching her that is exactly why you are there. That is also the sign of a match wanting to be established.
If she goes to a new club, go with her to the men’s room that is just past the ladies room. Once she is comfortable with you, come in for the kiss, make her laugh, and see that she fades in and out of consciousness.
To make it easier for you to become friends with a babe, you really should check out some of her favorite guys. She will like you more if you put in a good word for her. It never means that you are just friends with her, it could just mean that you stand out from the crowd.
The most important thing is to make her enjoy your company and make sure that you are making her feel good and comfortable. Stay clear of rejection and taking too much until things get more advanced.
