A woman always needs to be flirted with – whether it is your first meeting or first date or even if you are just starting to go out. Women get excited about men they meet and see as soon as they approach them – so designers, writers, poets and artists always need to express their deepest and sometimes abstract desires. To really get a girl’s attention, you need to know some basic principles that give you the freedom to express yourself.
1. Throw her off.You always need to make her think – “Wow, why did he do this?” or “Why did he say THAT?” Your response should break or surprise her and let her know you are not puzzled or affected by what she just said and put her in a position where she feels like you were not paying attention to her (because you were thinking about something else that turned you off, of course!). Again, get them thinking and they will remember you long after. If nothing else – nothing is sexier than a man who keeps his own counsel and just plainly listens to what a woman has to say, period.
2. Look at her with a full view of your live in your mind.When speaking to a woman always keep your entire body shout with your eyes, not filthy, but full of life – speak slowly (as the normal speech in your company is usually too boring), keep your shoulders back and show your teeth. Whatever other gesture you make, make sure they are directed at nothing less than her. And if you want her to like you, make sure that you compliment your lady, but say it in a way that does NOT make her into the sex object – so don’t be a pervert.
3. Speak slowly.Speaking fast and popping not out of your hoop is very Nope, not really attractive and show the person your are talking to that your not “Shallowing” Anyone at all. Instead of “Yes, That is so interesting, gladly accepted”, speak slowly and smile at the woman, exaggerating all the time you open your mouth – “Hear ye further,” (uttered gently into her ear), even when your just spoken slowly, “Thank you, I am happy to meet you.” The more you speak slowly, the tulier you will get, “believe me, I am not an expert at this,” so have “nice Passions,” or “Good shot,” are not so bad. The last one is going to light her candles, believe me. She will link those pleasant feelings within her, to you – that is going to drive her nuts
An additional point, Thai ladies are often very shy and dare not challenge the perfect stranger, especially a stranger they have not met before, so toss those phony pick up lines, and tell her that she is a beautiful woman, but then ask her how she is dreaming. Many Thai ladies are easy going guys – they love to please – so ask her if she is lost on the street, or if she knows the city name, or what a good restaurant is nearby. “Where did you come from?” are questions that are acceptable, but not the best of conversations starters.
4. Be Communicative.For some odd reason almost all the travel websites require their subscribers to send a monthly holiday greeting to their Thai girlfriends and their family. It’s an easy sales pitch to begin. You have to send a letter, a short email or SMS…? No, sorry, something longer and more loving will do. Ask her, “what is a wonderful woman like you doing in a place like this” or “what are your amusing stories from your family and in your country”. Remember, Thai people are very sociable but personally it is very important for people to speak when meeting other people from other cultures – you don’t want a Notice That didn’t Forward Message (because nobody reads those!)
5. Be Confident.Talk – the language of love. Your gestures and the language of your heart mean so much! Sending a Conclusion message (asking for her number or setting up the next meeting) can be a good solution if everything went well. Setting it up can be difficult, and perhaps harder than the past, but it entirely depends on your charm and good communication skills. You don’t want to make her feel overburdened or profiled, but a simple text will help establish a connect and make her feel good if she did it with you.
Good luck!
