It should be noted that not all of these tips will work in all cases. This article is not for everyone and you will need to use your own judgment. The more you practice, the more natural you will become at flirting with girls via text. It takes practice, so be yourself and don’t be afraid to seek advice if you aren’t getting it the first time.
Tip 1
Laugh at her! This doesn’t mean you have to be a clown. Just remember to be playful. You’re text message is like a conversation; you have to talk like you are talking in person. You’ll have to “target” her with your text by saying things that make her smile. If she is smiling, you can bet that she is also smiling because of you.
Tip 2
Doing this on a regular basis will develop your skills at flirting with girls via text. After a while, it will be easier for you to send her random text messages that relate to other things that you are doing. If she always has to text you random things, it could be because she is compelled to do so.
Tip 3
When she responds to your text messages, make sure to act serious. This will eliminate any moments of doubt about your true intentions. The last thing you want is to give off the impression that you are playing games or that you are not interested.
Tip 4
Nothing certain about yourself. If you are unsure about your texting skills, there’s no shame in asking your friends for help. Have a group of friends text her random things as well. Think of this as a way of getting more comfortable with the whole set of people texting you.
Tip 5
You will want to always text multiple girls at once. This is especially important if your girlfriend decides to text you after work. You never want to text her all the time. It is OK to be intimidating in person, but you don’t want to be intimidating over text. Remember what we said about practice? Yes, practice will make perfect!
Tip 6
Pay close attention to your responses. If you’re going to text a girl, know what to say back. This may seem vague, but there is a specific answer to that. You have to always know the detail of the interaction. Remember what you said and add on something else that goes along with it. We can put an example of this in the form of a story.
“It was pretty crazy last night. We went to a club and left a little before the closing time. We’re out of there in a cab heading to what we think is a place we can get some good food. We get to the restaurant, and the waitress comes over to greet us. She introduces herself, anditedo her.
Rewind, rewind, replay
She asks, “what time do we get the food we came in?
You reply, “hey, the food were great, thank you!”
She replies, “yeah, we got some great food. I had some trouble concentrating on my salad, so we had to leave a little while to get some chips and coke. That’s all.”
This is a great example of having good food, great service, and great conversation all rolled into one.
Tip 7
There is a right way and a wrong way to ask a girl for a date. The right way is to make sure she knows you are interested in her and not just after her for her looks. Make sure to include the fact that you have a busy past and you have actually dated before. This will assure she that you aren’t just playing her.
Tip 7A
This one should be obvious. The last of the dating tips for guys, don’t ask her out until she is open to it. If she is not open to being asked out, don’t do it! S/he will either think you are creepy, or just not into her. Don’t be embarrassed to tell that you have feelings for her. It doesn’t hurt.
If she doesn’t feel comfortable with you asking her out, then don’t worry about it. Not every girl is going to be comfortable with dating an older guy. But, if she is just going out with you for the sole reason that she has never been asked out by a guy before, then you have a very good chance of being together for a long time.
The other dating tips for guys that I like to use all the time are the ones about setting up a first date. Before calling her, have something already in mind that you want to do. It could be something super exciting like taking her sky diving or to a concert somewhere. Have heracho prepared, ready to go, and she wont even have a chance to say no.
