It seems everywhere you go, whether it’s a bar, a party or an ordinary conversation in a coffee shop, people are flirting. Some people is even hooking up with each other and it’s all happening without them knowing. We generally call it flirting. However, what exactly is flirting? Some people might perhaps have an idea of what flirting is but the actual definition of the word flirting is just plainly talking. It is a fun way of attracting someone’s attention and it involves saying something nice or appealing to someone. But it is different from just talking, because you’re not gruffing and receiving confusing looks.
There are actually flirting techniques that you can try tonight to improve your love life. You do not have to remain frustrated if you fail at tempting women. Just know that flirting is a basic human instinct and it will somehow find its way to your way of life one day.
Below are some flirting techniques that you can try to make yourself irresistible to the opposite sex.
Make eye contact.
Its funny how the eyes cannot lie. It can instantly tell the story of who you are. You can make someone feel comfortable looking at your boring night in the world. Fact is, the eyes cannot lie. So when someone you want to become your partner looks at you, don’t be afraid to smile and even wink at her. That will make her feel confident about her approach to you. People always want what they can’t have, and in flirting, making eye contact is a form of resistance.
Cheeky smile
A cheeky smile can give you an extra edge when flirting. It can mean that you’re someone who is confident and straight to the point. But when you’re flirting, you need to consider the risk of misinterpretation if you’re too cocky. Remember, you can also be misunderstood at times. That is why you need to be confident looking but also able to laugh about any misinterpretation of your flirting.
Smile, smile, smile
It is one universal gesture that always works effectively. You don’t want to be without a smile, for nothing conveys confidence like a smile. And when you’re talking to someone you’re interested in, you want to maintain eye contact, there’s no point looking at the ground. But be careful as you might get confused with the signals you are sending either way. Some people are always cheeky and others try to deny that they have a cheeky smile on their face. But the truth is, you have to admit that some people least want to forget the fact that they have feelings.
Be neighbourhood
You are not trying to flirt with anyone who lives next door. You just want to be friendly. You cross the road with a friend and you are welcomed to all the inhabitants of that street. When someone you want to be your partner faces you, smile at him or her, compliment the face and think that two people talking is so typical. You do not have to be rude to anyone, even if it would be rude to the one you want to be your partner. But above all, avoid looking sad as if you’re lonely or desperate. Don’t Beg!
Affection
Brush your arm against the one you want to be your partner’s. Some people hate being touched by a stranger but he or she is just being cautious. You cannot be more than a friend but you want to get closer, not just physically but also emotionally. You want to get a message across, that you are interested in him or her. Some people are too shy to share that kind of feeling with the person they want to be with. To them, it might be an offence to their partner. Don’t be stupid. To initiate a deeper friendship, you need to reach out and touch their arm, or maybe let your partner know that you can not live without him/her.
That’s all you need to keep your evening with your new friend to a good fun filled night. Remember, that is not the only person you want to become your partner’s life partner but it is the evening that you share together that will moulds the bond of your relationship.
