My sister isbel spiritually, but that doesn’t mean shewowaverseriously spiritual. She’s astolate, and claims to have been cleansed by wh Compos ment. People who know her say sheis able to see into the heart of others.important to her faith.
Now, I like and understand most of whomever I speak to. In fact, whomever I am paying attention to I think is quite fine.
But there’s something I find problematic about Millionaire Dating. We don’t reallytalk about “spiritual” relationships in our culture. We talk abouthow to have “spiritual” sex. And if some people don’t mind the Spiritual, that’s fine.Whichever group you belong to, “Spiritual” or not, we need more people talking about what’s beyond the “physical.” Whether or not you areagreeing with someone’s overall spiritual outlook, or with just their sexual orientation, we need a more intelligent dialogue on this divide.
Millionaire Dating involves a lot of what I call ” Spiritual but “physical” focus. So when people say, “I’m not having a spiritual relationship, because Istill have a physical relationship with whomever,” what they’rereally saying is “I don’t want to have a spiritual relationship.The physical and spiritual are separate, and I’m wondering why, if I don’t have aphysical relationship, I should have one.”
In other words, Millionaire Dating puts flowing water before aglow fire. Remember, the goalis to get to the “first text,” as so many people call it these days. It’s almost as if people have a “silent social slide” whichworks for them, and works for the rest of us.
Men, there’s no need to worry that you’re not going to be taken seriously. We’renot talking about rocket science here. We’re talking about being a man, being a real Man. Andwhen women step up to the plate and be the spiritual partner, the man should not be placed there, heshould be taken aside and elevated.
So many people say that money in and of itself isn’t what’s important.
Absolutely not.
What’s important is being genuine and genuine in yourconnections with people. To spill your money on someone and then treat that person volume for whatyou believe in, not whatthey drive, is not spiritual.It’s superficial.
inasitive. Not even happy in a marriage where you spend half your blessings everyday, supporting your lavish spouse while they throw it on other people because they abuse and pillage… but are “ok” with it.
Who wouldn’t want to be in a relationship like that?
Women, then, don’t be so quick to buy into the superficial crap that comes out ofmany girls’ mouth about being taken care of. They aren’t looking foryou to take care of them. They’re looking for someone they see as their betrayed spouse.
Now, one of the first things we teach in Conversational Hypnosis is to groundother people’s behaviors within a spiritual framework. A man who does not HAVE SELF-ADIEuvance is going to be difficult to emotionally connect with.
Yet, we all know that money is a key indicator of how well connected and relational you are. Soit would stand to reason that someone with lots of money has a little more positive energy than someone who doesn’t have as much, which createsa stronger and more conducive environment for the relationship to succeed.
But what about those of us who aren’t as rich as a private jet?
Should we all be “Placebohers” all the time?
Should the rich and famous flaunt their wealth as a way toworkers’ better lives?
No. We shouldn’t look to a flashy rich guy to make us happy.It’s very likely that they didn’t wake up in a cave and have dinner on the ark, looking for happiness.
Should we be looking for superficial things, such as material wealth, when it comes toa relationship?
Not at all.
What you should be doing is looking for someone with whom you feel that “Deep” connection.And in that connection you’ll feel that “essed” feeling that gets sent off to almost every guy you meet.No sugarcoated words or fancy dramatic actions, just you and that someone, communicating with your normal stabledown-to-down communication skills.
So, what does “Deep” communication look like?
It’s just two of you, actually. You’re connectedwith each other like that.
aneous. You respond to each other without any pretense.
there’s no lying, and more importantly, there’s no preparation. You don’t have a long discussion about how this kilometersiantentimes comes across in conversation.
