Do you know how to play hard to get? Why is this so important? Do you want to keep a guy attracted to you?
When you are hard to get, a man will do so much things to win your heart and attention. Playing hard to get is very sexy and easy to do.
Men are hunters by nature and love a good hunt so it excites them more when they are hunting for you. They feel the need to go after you if you are playing hard to get. It makes them work harder to win you so they will develop more attraction and love for you. As a result, you have more control over him and he is eager to please you because he has competition.
To play hard to get, you only need to do a few simple things. You do not need to change who you are, but you only need to keep yourself a little mysterious. You only need to leave him wondering about your plans for a date when you see him. Leave him drooling for more by making him wonder what you are up to. When you are hard to get, men will go to any length just to please you and get your attention.
Men can be very fickle minded. If you could only take control, you could make a huge difference in their lives. One of the biggest complaints that women have is that men are never decisive or know what to do when they have to make a decision. By playing hard to get, you take away their ability to make decisions for you. You can still be hard to get, just keep yourself mysterious and elusive. You can give him hints to show him you are interested, but then hold back. If he goes to great lengths to please you, he is a keeper.
During the beginning stages of playing hard to get, you do not want to give him any information about yourself. You do not want to tell him what you look like or anything else that will give him more than enough information about you for the whole game. No person really wants to know everything about another person. Imagine going on a job interview and the only question that the employer asks is “What color are you?” Do you think the person will have a chance to talk about themselves or will they be quickly dismissed? You need to be hard to get so he has to work to find out more about you.
To Play Hard To Get You Just Have To Be Difficult To Get
Playing hard to get has to can be a way of taking control. This can be done by making it impossible for him to get a hold of you. If he calls you, do not answer the phone one minute after he leaves a message. Even if you know he is going to call, let him wait for an hour. This does several things.
1. It exchanges your time with him so he knows that he can’t get your undivided attention.2. It shows him that you are unhappy with something and are ready to do something about it.3. It turns a conversation often to teasing and fun.
Think of it this way. The girl that you are interested in, has had a lot of attention from guys. Usually, she is a hotter girl and more comfortable talking about herself and the details of her life. She has had many guys come on to her in public. She knows what to say and does not have to wonder what to say.
Most guys want to talk about shoes or clothes or how much they love their partner. They think that their girl is out of their element and they are not at ease talking about that subject with her. When you play hard to get, she will be more comfortable with it and find it a breath of fresh air. She does not have to worry about what you think or how you feel about any topic under the sun. She can just talk about anything with you.
By playing hard to get, you can make him fall for you. Just wait and he will be yours.
