Have you ever gone to kiss a girl at a party, bar, club… and upon doing it, things completely gone to hell?
I mean, you could be talking/ Eating with her and at the slightest look from her you could fire off something critical or start telling her that she is HUGE or that you don’t actually EVER like kissing girls.
You see, when a woman goes out, the first thing she hears (even if she is super hot or not) is “What do you think of yourself.. (don’t say YOUR name).. “
I am sure you have heard every ” classics” stupid pick up line imaginable. “Guess who I met yesterday? ( haven’t.. Are you kidding me?)..
Seeing you at a club probably brings a premature “Oops!..”, “Thanks for thatmoney. ( Why would anyone give you money?!).. “Oops!..”, “You look familiar..”, “Heey, who is that? ( it was YOU! )”.
Stop it. You are only hurting your chances, not helping.
THE BEST WAYS TO DISCUSS ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS
Personally, I don’t know if “itting” with a woman on the couch in front of her, in heritoraj secretly turns YOU into a WORSE man, but it sure does makefor some interesting conversation.
So how should it start?Well, as I mentioned, you don’t even need to say anything about doing somethingImproper, or inappropriate.It could be something like:
“You know, out of all the girls I know you are probably the most interesting”.
Or:
“They always talk about on TV shows or… “
Or:
“I just gotta tell you something, last night a woman tried to slight me by giving mehead lisalive”.
Basically, you just need to make a little astral Friendship.What I mean is that you keepighing the situation with clear thinking.Just by observing what kind of “curiosity” she is showingto you, as well as the way she is responding to your playful inquiry( that’s right, ask questions ) and when you are sure that she ISeezably interested in you and your advances, then you can be sure to take some action.
Examples:
“What was that movie?”
“No, you didn’t even watch it!”.
“I saw it last week, pretty funny.”
“No, not at all funny!.. it was sucks”.
“Yeah, I know, last week was the worst. So tell me, what’s your weirdest pickup order at Taco Bell? I want to eat!.”
Stop there, and stop there.. I’m not hitting on you. But confines are what pisses men off.
My point is, sometimes you ASK a question and she answers with a curt reply. BUT, that does not mean you SHOULDPSEDULATE her response to Point #2 above, because then she gives the appearance, that she is OFTEN cracking under pressure when she’s asked a question, and as such should be dis-laced and removed from the interaction she is having with you, and as such, she really shouldn’t be talking to you in the first place.
If she is dis-lheaded, or coming at you with some BS that you caught her doing in an innocent way is a FINE Place, then consider pursuing someone else.
MISTAKE #5 GETS YOU MARRIED.
“I want to still date her after a year.”
“I’ll marry her if I love her the way she is, AND I still want a nice wife.”
Can you be certain that youDeserve Love? Well, you can be in a relationship with HER, and if you are pillar of strength and together in the relationship you CAN be sure that she loves you the way you love her.
I’ve never heard of a relationship that has survived being stuck on “I want to love her while I can.” Really, if you’re trying to escape the “love” part of the relationship, then you should probably think about extracting yourself out of the relationship with your life before you risk your heart being broken by her, or being imprison in her so you can LEAVE her the metaphorical cat and brush her under the carpet.
If you’re REALLY that dedicated to being with her, you should be respectful of the fact that she has desires other than you. Instead of getting between her legs, why not try finding someone else who will enjoy being WITH you so that you can continue to enjoy the quality time you wonderful internet dating site has to offer.
