Not all communication is verbal. Non-verbal communication plays a huge role in attraction and seduction. You may have heard of the saying “Your words are only half the battle.” This saying is true for all types of communication – including non-verbal.
Many men have very little idea on how to read and interpret the signs that women often communicate through their body language. These secrets will help you to become a master at reading her signs and eventually, knowing her secret desires. The 4 ways you can tell if she’s into you are:
1. Listen to her Sex Talk
Listen to how she talks about her future sex life. This will give you great insights as to what she wants from the male sex. What does she talk about to relieve stress and calm down? What does she like to do to arouse certain needs within her? Has she recently engaged in a serious relationship?
Knowing her sex life will give you great insight as to what she wants. You don’t need any magical words to back them up or to know what they want – you already know. Women often communicate through sexual innuendoes. For instance, if she talks about doing things that she “did in a past life” or things that she “wished she could do” this can be very revealing.
2. NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Programming
When you start seeing how the female brain works, then learning various techniques from the field of NLP will be easier. Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) is a scientifically derived set of techniques that have been proven to attract women consistently. By using Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) you can start to see how to communicate with women on a deep level, how to have a deep conversation with an attractive woman, how to establish physical contact, and much more.
3. The Approach Signal
If you approach a woman, signal with her yoga posture, her positive body language, her slightly jerkilyinarily voice tone and her holding her breasts, by giving her a slow, soft, and sensual smile, and finally by softly touching her shoulder or cheek, you will be able to successfully communicate with her on a sensual level. Body language is very susceptible to being broken down into various categories, including tonality, body posture, eye contact, intimacy, and self-touch. When communicating with women, body language and tonality are important. For instance, if a woman doesn’t know you and has second thoughts about what you say, the tone of your voice is much more important then her own body language.
4. Physical Escalation
In addition to verbally and non-verbally signals, a much overlooked area in terms of how toattract womencan often be overlooked. No, I don’t mean whips and chains, but understanding physical gestures such as shifting, stroking, and pushing can be key. These are subtle ways of putting one’s arm around a woman’s shoulder or cheek, or extending a hand to browse her hair and brush her fingers through her hair, and will have a more seductive effect on her than your standard pick up line.
Physical Escalation may also include bringing one’s hand to his or her own, and putting one’s hand on her waist. These are ways to physically touch her and helps her to become aware of your presence. While these may seem like small gestures, they go a long way in how to attract women, especially when mixed together with other forms of flirting.
No, you don’t need to have a movie-star looks and a perfectly chiseled jaw in order to attract women. These are just easy-to-do tips on how to get women physically and emotionally attracted to you.
In order to truly know how to attract women, you need to learn and practice different types of flirting, sexual and otherwise, on both men and woman. After you do that, you will greatly improve your chances with both male and female coworkers, as well as all other types of social interactions. If this doesn’t make sense to you, don’t worry! I’m just focusing on what you need to know right now.