Attract Women Emotionally – Not Just physically!

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Physical attraction is obviously the most obvious and most challenging aspect of getting a woman attracted to you physically. If you have strong, lean muscles and a six pack you are going to be physically appealing to women. You don’t have to be super ripped to a point where women are literally drooling to be with you. You can still be attractive and desirable to women, but you do need to control your desires for someone else. You need to focus on your own emotions and desires once you have them, and never let them go back on you once they do.

When you’re Message is Stronger Than Your Body Language

Anything you want to portray can be seen under a different type of scrutiny than what you actually mean. For instance, if you say to a woman (on a date) that you hate dogs, how she will probably take that statement and assume that you think of them as some of the grossest, most repulsive things in the world. She will probably then think that you hate animals in general and be turned off by that and most likely will stop dating you altogether. On the other hand, if you say that you love dogs, even if you really do, and believe it, that is something that will attract her to you. You have to be genuine and honest with her in how you feel about certain things and reassure her that she doesn’t have to worry about your other desires.

She’s likely to see what you mean, even if it isn’t what you literally mean by saying it. Women love to be reassured and told that they are normal and aren’t weird or wrong or bad. If you can reassure her that she isn’t alone and like most women, she is far more likely to become attracted to you. If you can talk to her about other women and show her that many women like you, she is far more likely to become attracted to you physically.

Tell the Truth and honest with Women

The real key to attraction with women is to understand that they are very good lie detectors. Women have been far more trustworthy than you or me and they have developed this and other instinctive skills to lie convincingly. That doesn’t mean that you should share everything with a woman, but you should talk to her, but in a completely honest way. If she asks pointblank: yes or no questions and always projects this woman across as being close, your conversation is most likely going to be a disaster. Projecting an “I don’t care attitude” and lying will not build attraction with a woman, but neither will honesty.

You should always be somewhat refusing to give into a woman’s demands. If you tell her a lie and you regret it, you can tell the truth as it is, but you must also show her that you didn’t mean it, too. A woman will be attracted to a man for who he is, but who he isn’t. She will be attracted to you, however, if she feels like you are interesting and playful, and you give her a challenge.

Be Playful

You want to be funny with women, but you don’t want to be a humorous bore. You should be respectful and not see any humor in the situation. Stay away from childish humor. Consider the situation and ask yourself if something is funny or not, even as you speak. Women simply aren’t attracted to a man who is boring.

Humor is important, but a sense of humor can’t be developed by sitting and listening to a comedian act silly. You need to be witty and playful. It is important that when you and a woman are communicating, you speak the same language. That means you should use the same mental equipment to discuss the same things and come up with the same answers. Remember when you talk to her, you must sound fun and cool. She must also be having fun.

No compromise – No Attraction

You must realize that you and only you can make her feel attracted to you. There are no questionnaires that should be answered before you are a success. Attraction does not come. It just sort of “happens”. You can help yourself, but you absolutely must not depend on any instant seduction to give you the love of your life. It doesn’t work that way. Keep this in mind – No Attraction comes close to an instantaneous, powerful attraction.

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