Playing hard to get is an essential part of getting a man to chase you. You will have to make sure that you do not allow yourself to be too available to your man. He should feel that he has to work to get your attention. Here is how you can achieve your desired results.
Show him that you are not a easy catchWhen you want to play hard to get you have to show your man that you are not an easy catch. Show him that you are not going to be a person who is there to be served on a silver platter. When he sees that he has to work to get your attention he will chase you.
Be a busy personDon’t let your life revolve around your man. Show him that you are a busy person and that he has to work around you in order to meet you. Much like the commercial advertisement ‘your man shouldn’t disrespect your independence but shouldn’t do the same in your relationship either’.
A little hard to getAfter you have been a busy person for a bit he will try to do some gentle persuasion on your part. Now he will be more direct with you and will begin to play hard to get. That is one way to play hard to get.
Don’t give him an impression that you are too readyA number of women make the mistake of going easy on the guy when they play hard to get. They either do not tell the other properly that they are not interested or that they have no further plans to play hard to get and are willing to be patient. Such a attitude is very disappointing for the guy and he will quit even before he gets a chance.
Plant some doubts about your interestIf the guy is clever he will make sure that the doubts and inhibitions that he has planted in your mind are not Sunday afternoon. Sunday should be your time of day for making him chase you. Indicate that you have other weekends open and are free but are not available this weekend. He will definitely change his earlier plan and make sure that he is able to see you.
Acknowledge that he is a busy person with a full scheduleA man will never stop chasing a woman who he gard not achieved his goal. So if he has been clever enough to plant doubts about your interest in him then you should acknowledge that fact and withdraw your attention. Once he has recognized this he will know that his earlier plan to have you was a good one and will go all out to be able to win you over.
Give him just enough attention to keep him happyWhenever he speaks with you make sure that the conversation is short and sweet. Show him that though you like him immensely and have decided to keep him, you don’t want to spoil the fun. Say yes to his invitation once in a while to his offers to escort you someplace or whenever he asks to have a cup of coffee.
Keep it professionalWhen you are talking with him it is necessary that you don’t end up talking much. Show him that though you like him immensely you cannot disposable your phone. Also make sure that you also keep an office on the side. He will surely regret asking you to be his off line.
Don’t adhere to his invite at all timesIf you are courting him and constantly adhere to any of his invitations he is bound to feel irritated at the fact that you have adhere to him in such a fashion to keep your professional life to yourself. Be a little selfish and consider your dignity.
Make his friends chase youIf he has dared to ask you out on a date keep him on his toes by making sure that you are surrounded by “ursry” ( dudes ) whenever he is around. You should not be too rude towards his friends but keep a very wary eye on them all.
Hint that you have other interests lesser than himAs juicy as your relationship might be at the start do end your interest in him completely till such time that he undertakes to chase you. He shouldn’t feel hunted at all.
